Well for most of the times I've had sex, I've never really had to do any work, like even being on top. Now I have a guy who loves it when the girl is on top, but I know I suck! Do I just go striahgt up and down, do I thrust in too? I feel like such an idiot with not having the simpliest knowledge that like every girl has, but I don't know what else to do.
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Being on top
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Straight up and down is fine. Experiment with what feels best for you - that's what the woman on top position is all about.
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I'm not too sure about the thrusting... you can actually 'break' a man's penis that way if you're not careful.
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You can nbe on top and have him do the work, I really enjoy that!
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not every girl has the knowledge, it's not like we're born with it!
next time, ask him to hold you by the hips and move you how he likes it. that will likely show you some new moves.
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'break' what ? there ain`t no bones
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You can "break" an erect penis by causing it to bend excessivly, which causes a tear in the erectile tissue. If it did occur, it is considered an emergency and needs to be repaired or permanent damage can occur.
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Just have fun experimenting. Enjoy yourself. You'll be able to tell what he likes by how he reacts to something and the noises he makes.
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Ok as a guy I think I can help on this one. A guy enjoys to please a woman. If your making noises and moaning, he's getting off. Trust me. Do what pleases you, and he'll get his. Just got up and down, move around a little bit, and the biggest thing, try, slowly, while its all the way in, leaning forward and kiss him. Do this slowly so it doesnt hurt him, but it is the GREATEST feeling in the world. He will flip his lid, trust me.
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Louisianaredneck has it right from a guy's (and a penis's) point of view. Men get off by getting women off, and in my experience with all the usual positions, girl-on-top is an almost guaranteed ticket to the Big O for her--and, because she's enjoying it so much, for me and my big fat male ego.
Up and down is the basic move, but once in a while, stop, grab his penis and use just the head to pleasure your clitoris, your labia and, further in, your G-spot. In a way, that's using him as a dildo, but trust me--he won't complain. But see what you can do for him while you're pleasuring yourself. You'll be able to see in his face and his body movements what's working and what's not. You can do little twists and turns, or reach down and play (gently) with his testicles. My wife has figured out a way to contract her vagina around my penis when she's on the way up. It's a killer move, and it's all I can do to keep it from milking the semen out of me before either of us is ready.