Scared of school showers?

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sorry

In my very first gym session at secondary school (I was 12), one of the two changing rooms (we had 1 wet changing room with an exit that led directly to the pool and 1 dry changing room for the gym and other sports) was being refurbished which meant that after we finished swimming, my class had to use the dry changing room which we shared with a class of 5th years (16 year olds).

Showering was mandatory. Most of us weren't particularly bothered about being naked because we've grown up in a society where communal changing rooms are the norm rather than the exception, although most public pools over here do have private cubicles as well as open areas.

It was embarrassing though because of the actions of the older boys. When we entered the shower with them several of them decided to play up for the younger boys and deliberately induced erections, one boy jacked off cheered on by all his mates and when we were getting dressed, most of us put our underwear on almost immediately that we were dry whereas they (the 50% or so who bothered with underwear at all) put their underwear and trousers on last and made certain that most of the time they were standing in front of one of us when we sat down to tie up our shoelaces so that their cocks or arses were waving just mere inches from our faces.

A few boys in my class were really bothered by it but for most of us it was just mildly embarrassing.

One kid in my school, the first one to get naked in the locker room, was in his boxers, and he pulled them down, revealing what wasn't to big of a penis, average i guess, but he took them off and sat down on the bench right behind one of my friends, when my friend turned around the kid was like jacking off to him, pretending, but it looked like he wanted my friend or something, very weird. lol

" You went to the changing room, talked a bit about homework, girls, what to do after school, whatever, went to take a shower in a totally non-erotic way, dressed up and got going."Dude… That is how it was in my school. It was just expected that we shower after practice. There was nothing erotic about showering after gym class or after practice, especially if we had a class that followed. I wish people would stop trying to make it look like a huge homofest in the locker room!Get over yourselves!!

Can I get over yourself?? Wink winkWe were never forced to shower at my school, it was optional. Only time I showered was usually after track and/or cross country practices or meets. There was the guy Paul (always thought he was soooo good looking, swimmers build, blue eyes and curley blonde hair drool) and I always stuck together. I always figured he was gay (And a couple years after high found out he was gay and lives in Pittsburg with his lover lol) and I think he thought the same about me. It was nothing sexual between us, almost like we were there to protect each other. Like we always changed next to each other in the locker room and if we needed to shower we showered next to each other. I think we were just comfortable with each other and we trust each other.And you know, all those time he was naked beside me (changing and showering) I never looked below the waist and I don't think he ever did either.

Ohhhhh, come on you gotta sneak a peak! wink wink

I kind of wish I would have now. I had the serious hots for him in High School. But yet at the same time it adds to the fantasy that I didn't look. Though by accident one time I got a quick glance of his butt. I was turned the other way on the bench, facing away from the lockers, in the locker room and I turned at the same time he pulled down his underwear to put on the biker shorts and his butt was like right in my face. So I got a quick glance before I turned away LoL.

Seriously, showering after class is no big deal. I was so afraid of it that I let it keep me back sports, I let fear run my life. Don't do that. The day will fianlly come, anyway, when you aren't going to be able to avoid it. Thats the way it was for me when I went to college and after the first time you find out its no big deal. Everybody washs their junk and gets the hell out of there. At least thats my experience.

we used to have seperate showers..i used to be the only one showering, with 1 other guy... loland the other guys just used to be annoying =Pon lower school school camp we all used communal showers tho, nothing harmfull, lol, just kids

In middle school, showers were mandatory at the end of phys. ed. class. There was a window where a towel would be handed to you if you were naked and wet. Then youd get dressed, and the coach would stand at the locker room exit; if you didn't have a towel, you were screwed. You could cheat and snag a towel if no one was looking, or if you were pals with the guy handing out towels (usually a student who couldn't participate in sports for some medical reason).It was a little weird at first, but at least for me, I started puberty at 11, so I was at some stage of development by 7th grade. The idea of anyone masturbating, or doing anything that might even be remotely construed as gay, is beyond imagination. Anyone who did that would have been mercilessly ostracized, no matter who they were.Americans have a screwy and unhealthy attitude toward nudity. The fact that pornography is one of our biggest industries makes it that much more screwed up.

Gym teachers cannot make you take a shower in anyway or you can sue them. They can only give you a form of decipline but they cannot MAKE you take a shower in any way if you do not want to.!!!!!!! There's a big deference between someone making you do something or haveing the option to do it but your choice might have deciplin!!!

Oh god are you one of the people who walk around the lockeroom at the gym naked???? I hate people like you!! And some of you walk around holding a towel and not just taking 5 seconds to wrap it around you hips! thanks for making my gym goings awkward as hell while you bursh your teeth shave and strech in the buff.

Someone> Well, they can't drag you into the shower, pin you down, and turn on the water. But isn't it fair to day that failing you in the class is the same thing as "making you"?

GOD> I hate people like you!

Why oh why are people so weirded out by nudity? I recommend that you don't go to a nude beach, but you'd probably be happier if you didn't pay so much attention to it.

no its just gross to see these old fat dudes walk around jigglin about.

no its just gross to see these old fat dudes walk around jigglin about.I'm sure they think you're just wonderful too. Maybe we should recycle people as soon as they hit 30.

Humans + recylcing= STANK and it is hard enough for us to remeber to do it for our grabage!!!

A little of topic, i refer to communal showers such as my town's sport center where the showers are open and all ages use this shower.2 weeks ago, i was in the shower after a swim together with 4 young boys i'm guessing around 14 or 15now I am "blessed" with a small penis, around 4.5-5" when hard and much smaller when flacidwell 2 boys already left the showers and 2 where still in, I heard one of the boys calls the other two to come back because he want to show them something.and I could hear them whispering "look at this guy's penis" and found all 4 boys staring at me, I know I have a small penis but damn!, all of them had a bigger penis than mine, I tried to ignore them and thought they will go - no chance !, one of the boys came to me and ask me how old I am, I replied 25 (such a naive answer) and he replied "then why is you penis only 10 years old" and all 4 boys started laughing. I was so ashamed, I went out dried fast and run and them still laughing.so now i am scared of meeting them again in the showers.

awwww honey, just ignore them. Why didn't you ask them why they had an obsession with your penis? Or give them a complex back and say "hey, least mine doesn't look like YOURS!" then laugh. I'm sure they'd soon shut up there's nothing wrong with your penis, I'm sure its fine x

or just say your older and can beat their asses......

Hi Everyone!! I was SO terrified of having to go to gym class in high school [because of my penis but mostly because of my 'big chest'] that I gave both my school councilor and my parents an ultimatum. I told that that I am either exempt from ever having to go to gym OR I will NEVER GO TO SCHOOL AGAIN!! [and I meant it] They knew I meant it - and they knew I was always good for my word. [one of the benefits of having a trustworthy reputation] I got my wish. Looking back on it - if my school had something like a 'walking club' or something not so competitive - I might have been better off. No wonder I've always been so 'curious' as to what goes on in high school lockerooms. Oddly enough - no one seemed to notice that I didn't go to gym class. [in spite of the warnings given by my councilor] Fortunately for me - I suppose - I brought with me [from elementary school] the reputation of being the strongest guy in school. [I was the school's arm-wrestling 'champ' - even against the teachers!! lol] Oh well.. GREAT BIG HUGCraig!!