Need help

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i was wondering if thereis no way for me to be with a girl,before you press the back button because you think its just another my penis is to small thing (it kinda is but hear me out?) i am Fat ;( , i have a pretty small dick (about 6 inches) and it is thin to (4.20 something) and when i masterbate i only last about 30 seconds.I have every single bad quality (dating wise) what can i do?im 14 years old if that helps for anyhting and im very tall for my age 6'3

That's not small at all except for your girth with is a little thin, but girth is added in the final stages of puberty. How heavy are you? There are on a few downsides of being over weight durring sex and it's mainly loss of breath and lack of stamina. 30 Seconds is very quick, but there are tecniques and ways to learn how to last longer. As for your dating qualities, they can all be improved as long as to try to. I had a teacher that had a total personality change inorder to be happier and be more enjoyable to be around. I don't think height has anything to do with this!

Hi Muncher12. First, 6 inches is longer the the adult average, let alone at 14. 4.2" girth is thinner than adult average, but perfectly normal for 14 - thickness often comes a bit later than length, and you're likely to get thicker. You therefore don't have a pretty small dick.Time to cum during sex can be very different from during masturbation.But I think you're starting at the wrong end here. You've just started at a new school with new girls - you're not likely to get to sex stuff for some time. Personality is what matters most to girls at this stage, and at every stage. Yes, it will help if you can work out and lose some weight, but if you are cheerful and kind and considerate, that will matter still more.

Beat you to the punch! jk

i joined football this summer and actucally i have alot of stamina and stuf and i have been going to the wieght room since 8th grade. and i am pretty fast.and it looks realyl weird for a fat persont o be pretty fast, im not really FAT FAT but i have man boobies but over football time have gotten alot smaller and i think by the end of the season i wont be that fat..if you have Aim, pm me on the board.. and tell me your aim name ill send you my picture if you dont understand what i explained about my fatness (dont worry im clothed and everything ;p ) thanks alot guys oh and the girls are very immature at my school ;( they really dont go for personality and stuff just looks and all

Your right and wrong ine, my High school and Middle schooled are merged into one and ive been with the same group of about 110 kids not sure how many girls for about 3 years.

I know i keep posting and pissing you off but... one more thing i wanna add ..... ive talked to alot of girls and i consider myself very nice and caring persona nd alot of girls have told me that i am but if it ever gets to the point when i ask them if theyd like to go out to lunch to get to know each other more they just say your not my type or something of that nature.

Maybe you're targeting the wrong group of girls. Check your PM's.

That does happen, Muncher - people tend to prefer people who are similar, and someone who is otherwise perfect may indeed be not the right "type". But not every girl will say that for ever.

thanks alot for everything if anyone wants to add there views please do

I had the same problem with the ladies back in high school."you're the sweetest guy I know""dam boy you're lookin' real good today""you have the most beautiful eyes"I ask them out and 9 times out of 10 the response is"I don't want to lose you as a friend"sigh... it's okay though, it gets easier as they get older and more mature.

i'm 18 and have had 3 fantastic relationships, despite having very little going for me in most aspects, especially physical. It sounds sad, but the way I got to know them so well is through the internet. I got their email addresses and we talked online more than in real life, they got to know me based soley on that without any preconceptions about my looks or anything, and also helped me build some confidence. It's not that I never went out, and we didn't do the 'online dating' crap, it was just a good way to get to know each other first. However, for the people able to pull in the real world, good on yer.

k, 6" is not small, look at all the adults, myself included who are 4.5 erect. Second so what if you're a bit slimmer then the "average ADULT male" ur still going through puberty and everyone else is correct, girth comes pretty much last. And your "man boobs" can't remember the correct spelling, called gynocomastia which occurs when your body starts producing estrogen, along with testosterone. the estrogen causes your breasts or nipples to enlarge. 60% of males get the gynocomastia it fades and they'll go down once your body slows down and stops with the estrogen production and testosterone takes over. As for the girls. Don't worry about them. Cliche as it may seem, there are more fish in the sea.