In the Relationship forum, I wrote about this guy I was talking to getting some other girl pregnant. I'm not pissed because he has a baby,I'm pissed because it's with some fucking bitch I cannot stand. I hate her some much...that this situation is making me think crazy thoughts like hoping she miscarries or it ends up not being his. All I know is I don't want her having this baby. This is tearing me up inside because this is not that child's fault that its mom is a slut. I don't want this baby to be born...Something is wrong with me...I should not be feeling this way...I don't want to...This is horrible...I want something bad to happen to her and not the baby...I need to pray for myself...What can I do to stop feeling this way?
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Hoping she loses her baby...
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you make me sick, stop being so selfish
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You sound like your obsessed with this guy, you need to seek help.
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That's the thing, I'm not obssessed with him...really I'm not...I just hate her...she doesn't deserve to have a baby. She is just a fuckin' hoodrat!!! I want to smack her. I'm pissed at myself for caring so damn much. Any normal girl would be happy not to have her life messed up with a baby....They both deserve each other...they should just get married so they can live in projects and be broke together...
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You should think about what you're saying. Losing the baby out of personal hatred for her? She may be a "fuckin hoodrat" (whatever your reasons may be) but that doesn't justify what type of mother she'd be. Just take your nose out of it and forget about it. The baby shouldn't have to lose its preborn life because you just happen to dislike the mother. This is a LIFE we're talking about, it goes beyond this hatred mumbo jumbo.
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Um.. what happened to ur whole post about teen mothers.. you need help.. thats disgusting
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I know, I know it's horrible the way I feel and I wish I didn't...I don't wish harm on the child...I just wish it was never conceived, but there is nothing I can do about and I'm realizing that. I need to just focus on my life and let her them ruin theirs...
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I've decided that I will focus on myself and not worry a situation that I have no control over. It was very wrong for mwe to wish harm on this child, and I hope God will forgive me. I know what I want in life and I don't think being second fiddle in some guy's life is worth it. Hate only breeds hate and I don't need it on my life.
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Forgiveness should be easily given and hate is wisely ignored. If shutting that door is the only way to help yourself then do it but an open mind is always good. If a hand is reached out asking for help, don't be afraid to give your help. More simply put, don't ignore your friend if he needs comfort. Accept the situationa and stay positive about it. You're doing a very good job so far.
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I'm extremely happy you came to that conclusion, silligirl.