Girlfriend problems help ASAP

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i tend to over react alot when it comes to my girlfriend not being able to see me or otehr things coming up. she is now gone and i need to find ways to not over react what can i do to mend this relationship

It's difficult - because it's so important, you tend to try to get as much information out of every little thing, and so you read things in that aren't really there. I think you have to keep telling yourself, "I don't really know, the chances are that the way I'm reading the situation is wrong".

i know but like today i got mad cause her mom made her take her car into the shop and i couldnt see her. how do i stop myself from doing that please help!!!!!!

Honestly, you know you have this problem, so it's just a matter of self-restraint. When a third person is making her do something, you really can't get upset at her---it's ridiculous to blame her for something like that. Although it's easy to get worked up when you really want something, you always have to keep your head screwed on. It's quite simple.

Every time you feel yourself getting worked up stop, take a deep breath, hold, exhale, and think about what your saying in this post.

boy i hope this works. i was never like this early in the relationship i dont know why i am now. i just hope i have the strenght to turn myself around wish me luck

yep, good luck! You're strong enough. Don't doubt yourself.