How do you know when to break up with someone. I have this instictive urge to start pushing a bf away after so long. I don't know if its' cause i want it to end or that I'm scared of later being dumped. I'll see a change in a persons personality towards me as an indicator and start causing fights and such to try and push this person to tell me they really want to be with me or they want to break up. This has happned in every relationship I ever had. I'm now in a relationship with a person I love but I don't know if I'm repeating the process cause I wanna break up or cause I fear I'll end up with a really broken heart later in life.
How do you know?
It's a wonderful world we live in...:D <i> Laugh its sarcasm.</i>
Everyone has that instinct when something needs to end. Maybe you're really sensitive, like myself, and small things get to you and cause you to come to a conclusion that may not always be accurate or on time. Or maybe you have a fear or paranoia of being dumped, and would rather be in control and be the dumpee, so you end things in advance or when it's not always necessary.
If you really feel it's love, try and give the relationship more chances. Love is a risk in the first place, a risk many are willing to take by putting their hearts out on the line. It won't always be out of a Disney book, but there's always next time if things don't work out. It's better to risk it than not be loved at all.
And it's you I see
But you don't see me.
Have a conversation with him...
don't make the mistake of dumping him and then finding out that that's not what u really wanted...
once it's over it'll probably not be the same again.