There is a girl named Kristyn at my school. she is astoundingly beautiful, and her personality is even more beautiful. i hate complimenting her ebcause words are so feeble as to what i really feel. I love her so much that compliments seem like insults. anyways I have known her for.....a year and a half. Her and I have been going to the same school as of this year, and before that we knew each other through church. Before i saw her everyday (now), i would see her on wednesday nights and sunday mornings. So i see her a lot, even if we didnt go to the same school.
anyways I have liked this girl since i met her. I got a great vibe from her. when i first met her, everything blacked out, and i could only see her. i knew i had to meet her. well fortunately her and i are good and very very close friends. she knows that i have loved her for ever since we met. she doesnt want a boyfriend because she committed to God. she knows ill wait on her. she has on and off liked me. ever since the eyar started, however, she has completely liked me. she still does and everything.
guys you dont know how much i love her. i dont even want to have sex with her. not even if we ever got married( and if we did i obviously would make love to her, but i mean like just in my thoughts thats how great she is. thats what i feel and what happens when i think of her like that. so if we ever did have sex it would be so passionate and incredible)). youre prob asking" OMFG whz d0n'T j001111!!!" and well thing is i dont feel i deserve a woman as beautiful, sweet, and great as her. i dont evenw ant to think of her having sex with me. i dont want to think of her being with a nobody like me compared to her. she has impacted my life so much........in so many ways. i love her so much.
heres the catch: i have another friend from school named Melanie. We've known each other for....8 months or so.... and we have been excellent and close. shes pretty cool herself. shes the most optimistic girl i have ever met. she is an encouragement to everyone, and she is very pretty. these past couple of weeks her andi have been getting really close. we have been on the phone every night. we usually talk about each other and how much we mean to each other. and i think she likes me but i think shes hiding it ebcause she doesnt know how i feel.
now this is confusing for me because i know that if i get into a relationship with kristyn it wont be for a while. plus kris is a year older than me, whereas mel is the same age. now ive tried to get over melanie, but idk her personality is just so exalting and she is wonderful. in the past ive tried to get over kristyn. ive tried so hard, but i just cant! and my feelings are just driving me nuts. im not just thinknig about melanie just because i think she likes me. i feel like we have a serious connection, and if we got into a relationship it would be amazing. but at the same time i have liked kristyn for so long, and i have waited on her. i am so confused about what i should do.
help would greatly be appreciated.
Two girls, one guy, one love?
I think Kristyn is the way to go, but my opinion or anyone else's doesn't really matter. Ultimately it's up to you. List what you know about each girl in your head, whichever one looks like they will make you the happiest go for it.
The reason I think Kristyn is the best bet is because you know she's had feelings for you. You think she's beyond wonderful and everything you ever wanted in a girl. You see her as more than something sexual and that means A LOT. I assume you see her as the person you can grow old with.
Remember that waiting to lose your virginity after marriage can be one of the most fulfilling things you'll experience. If I were you, I'd wait to be with Kristyn because the wait sounds like it's well worth it.
thanks for the help man. But unfortunately Kristyn doesnt like me anymore..... Oh well I'll keep y'all updated when things happen.
Did Kristyn by chance find out you're interested in someone else? That could be the reason. Either that or she's just wishy-washing as you described her attraction to you before.
No Kristyn doesnt know about Melanie. She knows her, but she doesnt know i am attracted to Melanie. Kristyn's just kinda wishy-washy.
I see. Well if you're starting to develop some kind of plan or you're leaning twoard certain actions let us know and maybe we can help.
Dude. I was in the exact same situation on numerous times. I fell for some of the amazingly beautiful girls of the school, we have a thing going, and but we werent going after anything. I later on meet this other girl, and our connection immediately set off. I didnt know what to do. Because I knew I could be with either of them. but unfortunately for me. they both met someone else. but thats what happens sometimes man. but thats not your situation right as of now.
Kristyn sounds like a good bet - i agree with websexinfo. My girlfriend im with now. We are so incredibly .. in love with eachother? Young loev you could call it because im only 16. But. We see ourselves being with eachother for a long time, I dont really see her as a sexual toy for me, this is the girl Im actually settling down with and having an actual relationship. We are happy.
But enough about me :laughing:
I would go for kristyn. Because you see her the way I see my girlfriend as of now.
But I guess you have ran into a problem of her not liking you anymore?
-- I would say kinda remind her that you may have had something again. talk to her more, but be slow with the idea. you dont need her to admit that she likes you - find out from a friend :smile: But this melanie girl seems like a good one to. If you guys hit it off so well. you could go for her too. It sounds real bad to consider this, but maybe use one as a rebound girl? but dont let them know that they are the rebound.
But dont really listen to what Ive said or what others have, it comes up to you, Plus if you are young, you are gonna meet alot of women that are like this and you are gonna have plenty of opportunities.
Hope that may help at all? I kinda bunched it all in choppy ways that time but lol I never seem to be able to make clear points. :confused:
Man I love the relationship forums, Im posting in them like maddd haha