Ok Here it goes: I tell this great guy i like think, and have for quite some time. We've gone out once before, but it was nothing kind of thing. Neways, After i give him that note in about 12 hours (First period the next day) I walk into class, about 10 people start going "so you like joe?!?" I write him a note saying that we arent going out, and that he had no right to tell everyone that. Being, He didnt actually ask me out. Now, He's not talking to me, not even looking at me which is like the worst feeling ever. Any help?
Grrr, Now hes not talking to me!
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I would not worry about it. I mean do you plan to seal his muth shut so he cannot say who he went out with. He might have said that, but as for the not talking he might have been caught off gaurd by you telling him not to talk about you to. Do not use notes, have a heart to heart with the guy.
well... all this note sending and "so... you like joe" souds too childish... try acting more mature and not letting things get to you.
my advice: don't write any more notes or letters... that would always fuck me up in school - took me a while to figure out that the best way of doing it is coming up to him yourself and saying what you need to say with style and confidence...
Ya the note passing doesn't look like it's gonna help. Guys aren't usually into that thing. Just ignore it and it'll eventually die down. If people ask if you like him respond with a simple "no" and eventually the topic will get played out and boring since there's not much drama happening.
And it's you I see
But you don't see me.
Hey, in my opinion he has every right to be mad. You sent him a letter saying "Hey I like you". Since he's now mad his telling other people was his way of saying, "Hey I want to go out with this girl". Then, when you reject it you're basically calling him a liar in front of everyone.
Like everyone else said, notes are a bad thing. So is sending your friend over to a guy you like so she can ask questions or whatever. lol. Everytime I got a note and everytime someone was sent over to me I'd go up to the girl in person and ask, "hey, did you want to tell me something". lol. I still remember their faces when I'm walking toward them... It's like I can see their mind saying "OMG HE'S WALKING STRAIGHT TO ME". They totally didn't expect it coming... Maybe you should do that to this guy. Surprise him.