What do you think about this?

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so this summer i got involved with this guy back home. he's younger than me, but that doesn't bother me since we will both be in college next year (2 hours away). this summer we went out nearly once a week on a date and saw each other almost every day for at least 45 minutes. he is a wonderful guy, and we admitted we were completely falling for each other, but didnt want to start a relationship because we were going to be far away from each other for the next 8 months. but we continue to talk on the phone about once every 2 weeks now, which is a lot less than ever before. we still flirt and he said he isn't interested in anyone else- that he's just really busy so he can't talk to me as much as he'd like. i think i may be falling in love with him, but i get mad when we hardly talk. of course once i do talk to him, he makes everything better and i can't stay mad at him. everything about him (except his lack of calling) seems so perfect for me. he's everything that i want, except he's not mine. anyone know how i can persuade him to call me more, or even make him think about me more? i just want him to be like "damn, i'm messing up with this girl, i need to talk to her more."we talk about dating this coming summer since we will be nearer to each other.. but im not even sure if this is what he wants anymore.. any input?

Well, I called my girlfriend every night and she'd still get mad at me because I didn't talk to her long enough. lol. So you're really good in my book.I don't if you can get him to call you more often. I don't see how he doesn't have time to call you at 9pm at night or something. Does he have a cell phone? Maybe you can call him every once in a while. You're in a kind of long distance relationship but then again you're not... So it's naturally going to be hard.

yea.. it's kind of 'understood' that we don't see other people.. moreso bc of the fact that we're both still interested in each other and don't want to hurt the chance for a future.he does have a cell phone, and goes to school 5x a week and to work every day. he gets home about 11:30pm each night.. i do call him, but i don't want it to be completely one sided. u know?

Now I can see what he means by being busy all the time. Calling him once a week isn't really one sided... but make sure that it's not too much for him which I don't really think so but people are different. The best thing is to talk to him about it but refrain from getting mad or pushing him. Make it more like a suggestion rather than a request.

i'll talk to him a bit more about it and see if he's still interested.. it's worth a try, but i don't want to regret passing up other opportunities bc i was waiting for him.. thanks for the help..