OKay I have decided on the girl I like more. I know she know I like her and she feels the same (i think). Anyway I always say in my mind when i am talking to her to ask her out, but it just does not come out. I can never ask her. I do not know what is wrong. Any tips?
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Hmm asking
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psych up and just do it. "ya know, I've been thinkin about you a lot lately and I was wondering what you think about us being together."
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yeah I guess so. You are right no doubt. Well I have two more chances where I see her this week (being on a campus with 39K people its kinda hard to find people). I will definitely give it another shot. I burns me up inside when I walk away. Also because she is cool when we are close talking or what not so......I will give it another shot in 6 and a half hours after my flag football game (she is supposed to be there, I asked her to come and I said to come see me as a break from studying).
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Good Luck. You should probably cut to the chase pretty quick. "hey, thanks for coming to see me. I really appreciate it." blah blah blah, then move on to asking her out. Basically make yourself a path and stick to it... If you're "freestylin" it gets a little harder.
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Eh. I had the same problem with my current girlfriend. we woould always talk and stuff and im like... jeezus man. ask her out. i did it several times. most of the times we were haning out and in front of people. Im not the person to do it infront of people really. I like being just us two. So one night, we were hanging out at someones house. and we were all talking. and I just whispered in her ear to come with me for a second. and I simply just asked her out. said something like "hey babe, your on my mind constantly and these past few weeks have been amazing, what do you think of us being together, you know going out?"Sometimes you just gotta do something out of the way to get what you want
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well I fucked up. I had plenty of time to ask her, but nothing came out. I got pysched out, and she was waiting, I think. I got this deep stare and my brain short circuited. DAMNIT!
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Nike. Just do it.