hey guys and Gurls! whats up? thanks for takin ur time for reading this..anyhoo lets get to it lolBeen dating this girl for over 5months now and its been really good and cool. This last week tho has been horrible every time we get on the phone or something we fight about dumb things. Like for example, well friday i got mad at her cause she was staring at some guys for along time and ignoring everything i said even when i told her to stop she continued to do it..she told me later she didnt mean it after a few hours of fighting, we got over it. Then yesterday got in a fight cause her ex-freind walks home with me cause she lives by me and i used to like her, as a friend aswell cause shes so annoying! lol. Anyhoo this girl wrote my gf a note saying "why are u bein such a bitch" and she wouldnt let me see the note but she showed me a part that said "your bf was once mine at one point before i met u" and that shit and i was like "can i see the note" and she goes "no!" and got all pissed cause i didnt have anything to say about the note when i hadnt even read it! but she goes and shows everyone else the note..even my brother but me! i dont want to fight about this but im goin to cause i dont think its right she yelled at me for not having anything to say even after i hadnt read the note..but the whole world had! i mean i think i had a right to see it if my bro did. Then we get in stupid little arguments like she will be chattin on about something and i will be like gettin a drink and she will be like "are u mad?"..im like "no why should i be?" then she starts mockin me goin "maybe because im gay"..and it annoys me, then she says shes crazy and stuff its annoying cause i know she isnt. I will keep you all informed on what happens over this weekend cause i bet it will be hell. Anyone got any suggestions on how to cope with little arguments over stupid stuff?
What should i do?
Well... see... she prob. got used to having you as a bf and having you arround and now she's actually letting herself be confortable around you... which means... that's the way she really is!!! Every girl and every guy put up some kind of act when they like someone... they try to seem cooler and sexier and more intelligent... less bitch or assholeish... but sooner or later the real "you" will kick in.And the thing with the note... that was just plain childish. Showing everyone a note that has to do with your private life and romance isn't something a mature person would do.I think you have a right and a damn good reason to feel the way you do about it.Babe... maybe it's time to start REevaluating this realtionship.
thanks for the reply Cherry:) Twas a Good'un lol. Today was goin great me and her in such great moods then all of a sudden she stops talkin, and making me confused. Then she says some stupid things and then acts all happy and then wonders why im mad! she makes me so irritated! arghhhh