My girlfriend, the self proclaimed definition for punctualality, always "on time by the second", has been late for her period for 8 or 9 days. She told me the other day and I've been freaking out since. Albeit, we've never had intercourse, we have fooled around doing much of everything and anything else. The closest I've gotten has been under her legs which I'm not so sure merits worry for possible pregnancy. Or am I wrong? Have her tubes supernaturally moved to her stomache or my sperm magically trekked successfully; a million punt return lengths?Please help.Scared as hell. =)
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Girlfriend; 8 days late and counting. Help?
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sometimes the sligest bit of sperm can cause pregnacy but im guess shes just late as that can happen once in a while no mater how regular someone might be.
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if you've never had sex with her then most likely she's not pregnant. Many different things can make her period be late such as prescription drugs.
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How old is she? Irregularity is not unusual for younger girls/women, especially if she has been under some sort of stress.
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Very early 15. According to her, she's never been late. Knowing her position academically though, stress may be a factor. I know her to be the most composed girl in existence so I don't think stress is anything really foreign. Why would it be be taking it's toll now? She is not taking any prescription drugs to my knowledge.
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There's no real rhyme or reason people experience certain things at certain times. God has a sense of humor.
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She's 15. She's still very young and therefore it's not uncommon to be irregular once in a while. Things such as stress and diet, or yes even "god" can cause her period to be late. Prescription drugs isn't the best example.
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lol. Amanda, you're a sweetie.
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You're fine. The odds of the fertilization here seem vastly less than the odds that stress, etc. caused the delay. However, you might consider getting an ept at the drugstore if the problem persists. I know it's embarassing at 15, but it'll take a load off your mind when it comes up negative (and it will).
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Alright. I haven't done anything other than sit and worry, but a few things have come up. She is now currently 11 or 12 days late. Is it realistic to skip your period for a month all together? Also, it seems as if her closest friend, also never late, has missed her period for the same amount of days. Her theory (which I never knew could happen) was that estrogen mixes between girls who hang out by each other and they end up having their periods at roughly the same times. My only saving grace is taking solace in her friend who is in the same fix.Help help. What's going on?I really, really believe that it's impossible she's pregnant. Why me? I haven't even had sex-sex. Does this happen a lot? Even though I have no clue what I am talking about... aren't the odds... astronomically non-existent?
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dude, she's most likely NOT pregant. I'm not sure about that whole estrogen theory, but it's normal for teenage girls to have a hectic period schedule sometimes. A way to control when her period will be is by taking a mild form of birth control.astronomically non-existent? yes
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If your fingers or hands came into contact with pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) or semen (ejaculate, "cum"), either your own or your partner's, did you touch your female partner's genitals or insert your finger(s) into her vagina (or touch your own genitals/insert your finger(s) into your vagina if you are female) while there was still pre-ejaculate or semen on your fingers or hands? If YES, then you have a MODERATE to HIGH risk of pregnancy. See your health care provider for a pregnancy test and an STD screening. http://www.scarleteen.com/reproduction/preg_risk_manual.htmlThat's what has scared me the most. But I don't know the extent of whatever it is they're saying.I suck.
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basically, did you finger her or insert your fingers into her while you had any semen or pre-ejaculate on your fingers?
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Touching myself after going in her orally. I'd say it was saliva. It was mostly saliva we'll say, but it wasn't direct.
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i'd say it was a very small chance then.
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Pregnancy tests aren't all that expensive, and it would surely be worth it for your peace of mind, don't you think?
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Let me clarify that. After going off in her mouth I touched myself and then used those fingers to go inside her. So most likely it was... saliva which was on me (possibly mixed with semen or whatever).
I hope you're right.
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i think it would be worth her using a preg test too!
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Can I have an update on my chances again, please?I'd like a test too but am afraid of the results. I suppose waiting longer wont help any more neither however.
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you touched yourself? if you came in her mouth, how did semen get on your fingers? Did you wipe excess semen away from your penis and then insert it into her vagina?