When my boyfriend and i have sex sometimes he puts it in fast and it's a shot of pain and it hurts soo bad i have to have him take it out and wait because i'm in so much pain. Somepeople have said i could be tight or could i have torn something when we had anal sex? Please respond fast thanks
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WHy does it hurt me when i have sex?
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you're probably not wet enough, try some lubrication, or more foreplay
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Hey emilynicole. Take a look at the thread a couple lines down in this forum called "Girlfriend's pussy hurts when we have sex." Some of the posts might also be applicable to you. Are you sure you're properly lubricated? Do you bleed at all when you have sex?
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Whoa! I was totally beat to the punch--by two posters, nonetheless. I'm too slow.
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I think everyone missed the obvious. "he puts it in fast"... well has he ever heard of slow and easy?? Of course it's going to hurt if he just rams it in.
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heylike most people have said your probably to dry or to tense how long have u been having sex for?how old r u?lolz
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i agree with the others...you're not wet enough and he's just ramming it in - a painful combo. tell him you need more foreplay and he has to go slow at first.
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Um well, if he's just ramming it in then there's the problem.If the pain is more on the outside, like at the opening of your vagina, then it's probably a lubrication problem as the others suggested. Try KY jelly or spit. If it's a deep-inside pain, then his penis is probably ramming your cervix, which is not good. Ask him to go slower, or not go as deep, or try a different position. You on top and him on bottom might be better in this case; that way you control the action.