How do you know when your ready for sex? I mean people say that you just have this feeling but i dont really understand what they mean.Im 15 and i masterbate i would say daily and i fantastize often about sex but does this mean im ready for sex?
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How do u know when your ready?
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Its just that you will have this feeling where you just know. If you don't know what the feeling is and haven't experienced it or can't recognize it then you are not ready. Trust me you will know it when you get it. Just because you are physically capable to have sex does not mean you should. Just wait and you will know when the time is right. You are young and although you are growing up doesn't mean you gotta jump right in the sattle.
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You're "ready" for sex when you're ready to take responsibility in using contraceptives. Also, I believe you should have feeling for the person you are going to have sex/make love with. But this is only IMO.I recommend using birth control pills AND condoms.
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Well me and my boyfriend havent been together for that long of a time which makes me not want to but i have really strong feelings towards him, hes the only guy ive actually loved. And I was just curious because i think about us having sex alot and I didnt know if that meant i was ready or what. and ive talked it out with my friends but they are all virgins and/or single so they dont really understand.and when i do decide to have sex i definatly plan on using condoms and being put on birth control
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when you 2 are together, you'll feel when the time is right. But remember, if you don't want to then you shouldn't. If you're worried about him not being satisfied, if he really cares about you, he can wait.
But the main thing is you'll know when you're with him. You'll feel really close and things will lead it's way to where it should be.
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Hes not pushy and he hasnt brought it up and i think hes waiting for me to so he feels like hes not pressuring meThanx for all the help though
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He sounds like a kewl guy from what I've heard.
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Yep.. Cool guy.. Sure he isn't gay j/k... He is just a decent guy if he isn't pressuring you.. Do it when YOU ( and him.. which i guess is anytime of the day ) are ready
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definitely good to be with someone special. and I would suggest not trying to "plan it." just let it happen, and in the meantime, have lots of fun experimenting with other stuff.
by the by, remember, it takes SEVEN DAYS for the pill to start being fully effective. -
so if your with a guy you truly love & are convinced the both of you are ready for sex, where does the whole parent thing come in? my parents would be ashamed to hear id had sex before marriage (not that i have...yet). i know i should be honest with them, but in reality, they're not going to be understanding. id be locked in my room until i was 21...i love my boyfriend and want nothing more than to be with him, but my folks wont see it that way...& keeping things behind their back would be hard, the birth control & such...im sorry if this sounds completely stupid and childish, but its just something ive thought about a lot, now that im considering having sex...
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You have to decide whether you believe as your parents do, or not. If you think it would be wrong, then try discussing how you feel with a trusted adult who can help you "resist." But if you don't believe as your parents do, then it's a matter of whether you want to respect their wishes or go your own way. No matter what, never try to cover it up, makes things so much worse.