Hey all. I was talking to someone through PM and it made me think about something. I've been friends with this one girl since... like forever. I had a crush on her in 5th grade so we go back to elementary school. For the last year or so I thought about what it would be like if we were together but I never really acted on it. When I moved out of my hometown I had a lot of time to sit at the house and think (since my car was in the shop for a week). I think I would be beyond happy if we were together. It seems like she's the girl I've been basing my attractions on... both looks and especially personality. I asked her if she ever thought about what it would be like if we were together. She said, "if we were together it would be a little weird but I guess that's only because we've been friends for so long and never really thought about each other in that way. I dunno. Maybe I'm just weird." I'm not sure to take that as negative or positive, but I've been dropping more and more hints that I want to be with her and everything is positive without a doubt. I agree it would be weird if we were in a relationship but I would think that weird feeling goes away after a while.So I guess my question for you all is have you ever had a relationship with a longtime friend? Did that "weird" feeling of being together go away after a while?