For the Guys and Girls - Taking a Girl out

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hey everyonewell basically, me and this girl have been through a lot. but to save a long, depressing story, i have asked her out twice and both times the answer was no.ok then, she is a really good mate and we get along so well and we have had many good times. So yesterday i asked her if she wanted to go to the cinema with me and she said yes.now bearing in mind that she had rejected me twice and this current situation i don't know what to do. i mean, how should i be around her, should i flirt and stuff? and while we are watching the movie should i do anything?also at the end of the week it's her best mate's birthday party and i'm going and of course so is she. do any of you have any tips for me what i should do.any posts really appreciated. Thanks, JaXx

In reply to: well basically, me and this girl have been through a lot. but to save a long, depressing story, i have asked her out twice and both times the answer was no.ok then, she is a really good mate and we get along so well and we have had many good times. So yesterday i asked her if she wanted to go to the cinema with me and she said yes.now bearing in mind that she had rejected me twice and this current situation i don't know what to do. i mean, how should i be around her, should i flirt and stuff? and while we are watching the movie should i do anything?also at the end of the week it's her best mate's birthday party and i'm going and of course so is she. do any of you have any tips for me what i should do. @ cinema don` do anythin , just watch da movie , and maybe talk / make jokes .

definetly do not do anything.. shes rejected you twice.. maybe she thinks this is a friend thing

yeh but this is the problem, it's not that simple. she turned me down the first time because i was being too over-protective, and the second time, she didn't want a relationship with anyone regardless as to how she felt.well yeh i guess this is a friend thing, but this is only a start i mean if things go well, i could ask her if she wanted to go out again and well you never know, things may progress.i mean i wouldn't make a move on her or anything, it's just like flirting and stuff. like in the cinema put my arm around her..what you think.

is it just me or am i being ignored ?

any posts apreciated

Observe her behavior towards you and act on how she's acting towards you. If I were you, though, I'd play it safe. Sparks don't need to fly from the first date and it's not that good of an idea to go out with her not knowing whether she thinks of it as a date or a friendly hang out. Next time be more clear with her.

Good luck!

i'd flirt with heri mean, if she is not interested, then you'll probably get the vibe after flirting with her for a bitit will at least make your intentions a little bit clearer (which i think is a good thing) and she may make her intentions cleareror you could just be totally honest and say "whats goin on"i'll let you know, i did a similar thing. i went with some girl to the movies. this was after she knew i liked her, and she made it clear to me she wasnt interested. anyhow we went to the movies. i had NO idea if we were just friends or what.i never asked heri didnt make a movei didnt flirt or anything with herand nothing more came of it.i regret it now. i was in limbo land for ages, not knowing where i stood.dont put yourself in the same situation

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You are ignored because of posts like these.

what u mean "posts like these"newayz thanx for all your posts in this forumany last posts apreciatedcheers, JaXx

note how i wuznt replyin 2 u the person im replyin noz wut im talkin bout