I've kinda got a problem that i am worried about...
I've been in a relationship for over 5 months now which is all good , but now we are thinking about having sex soon. We both know we are ready for it so thats not the problem, the problem is im worried i WON'T cum .
We've done 'stuff' together before and she always came, but i never have and its been getting to her recently, I love her and she knows that but she thinks i don't fancy her and that she is no good at the stuff she does.
Anyways what i want to know is if i've got a problem cumming or if its something else.
Many guys have trouble getting orgasm with handjobs or blowjobs, but that doesn't mean that you'll have trouble having orgasm with full sex.
Yeah relax bro. Just wait until you do have sex, until you start making assumptions like that.
There were times when my experienced ex.. he came in less then a minute.. dont worry hun!
Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.
You know, that sounds like it could have been written by my boyfriend, the near exact situation. I got upset about my boyfriend and stuff, but now, I know he ENJOYS it he just doesn't COME from Handjobs or Blowjobs. I'm sure if you explain to her that you enjoy it (you do don't you?) and like, praise her and things on the stuff she does so I'm sure you'll build up her confidence a bit. Most guys don't really tell a girl when they're doing a good job I think they need to more.
The others are right, relax and it'll happen. Getting all stressed out about it does not help the situation.