POSSIBLY MY LAST NIGHT HERE

FaBMX

Now there all not talking to me... GRRRRR

stupid_man

When your sister sees the problems between your dad and you she doesn't see hte facts she only sees the bickering which puts you on the same level with him. She tries to look up to you, but then just sees you fighting with your dad. She probably just assumes you are the same way as him because of those actions. Your sister truely cares about you, if you didn't she wouldn't have said what she did. What i would do it pull her aside and tell her you over heard her. Let her know that you love her and that your sorry for what you may have done. Tell her that you will try and improve your life and be a real brother she can look up to for now. Make sure she knows that its not going to be an easy street to ride but you'll try for her. All she wants is an older brother to love, and you do have the capabilty of being that person. Your sister doesn't need you to get good grades or anything, she just needs someone she can go talk to and that she can see trying so she has an example to follow. Let her know why you act the way you do at times. Explain the conflicts that you and your father have and I'm sure she will understand. If you can't have your parents because of the way they treat you try and make amends with her. If not for yourself than for her.

FaBMX

Well.. I thought about it.. I am like my father.. Short tempered.. So.. I guess I'm just like the problem?

Ineligible

You're not your father, FaBMX. And one thing that really hits me is how much you care for your sister's happiness, ahead even of your own. That tells me more about how good you are than anything else.Stupid_man's reply is absolutely right. And short temper is a problem, obviously, but it's one you can slowly improve. You are aware of it - that puts you well ahead of those who can't see their own faults.

stupid_man

AS ineligible said you have recognized your problem. This shows you that you are not like your father. Yes you have some qualities in common, but i'm sure we all could find something we have in common with a billy goat too.