It's so tight and sensitive that it hurts her just putting the first half of the cock in there. It's the girl's first time and over the course of a few days, we've tried over and over with lube but it is extremely uncomfortable for her.What do we do ? Is it just repetition that helps ? What's the secret here ? Is there something she can take ?
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Help a girl who's really sensitive & tight
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she needs to be relaxed and aroused
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so is it supposed to hurt but she's supposed to have her mind on something else ? We tried a few different positions but nothing seems to relieve the discomfort.Also, we're not sure her hymen broke... there was a little bit of blood one time. Does it hurt less after, etc. ? Any other suggestions welcome.
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As Amanda says, the secret is that she nneds to be relaxed and aroused. Lots of foreplay, perhaps some gentle music, and lots of patience. She is tensing up unconsciously, but once you've managed it she'll stop doing that.
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finger her and work her slowly first one then 2 then 3 then put your dick in. and you have to make sure that she is aroused and relaxed have her take a hot bath with sented oils and candles and just be totaly relaxed then turn her on and then work her up it will be easier and less painful then
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Well, it's like anal, you can't just pop in your diick you have to loosen it some.. so finger her using 1+2+3 fingers then get maybe a small dildo to work then when it doesn't hurt try to fuck again.. i love em tigh.. CAMELTOES! lol god you gotta love em. make sure she is aroused
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yep fingering her will definitely help. You are going to have to spend a considerable amount of time getting her ready for insertion.
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Thx... it's just that everyone's "first time" seemed to go pretty smoothly from the sound of things for most people.I didn't know it would take a "considerable" effort until now.The other thing... breaking the hymen I thought was supposed to be simple too... like I said before... we had a little blot of blood but that was it... didn't get too deep... don't know where we stand with that.