Question: is anal sex, of any kind, still illegal in some states. I know some stupid laws were passed at the beginning of the aids crisis out of sheer ignorance. I remember the story of some poor married couple in the Bible belt being arrested for sodomy. I think the peeping tom who snitched on them got off scot-free for his crime.Now THAT is sick!
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Who really likes anal sex?
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the laws against anal sex (and oral sex btw) were passed looooong before the aids crisis. those practices are illegal in many states, it's just that the laws are not enforced.
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I have never Done it but it seems like it would be nice to try.the thing is how would you ever get a girl to do it? i mean if they didnt want to then boom they would stop every thing and tell EVRY ONE.ugh life sucks in some ways
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you ask.
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Just having sex and i spit out"wana try anal ?"" The next day at school...............HELL!!!!!!!!!!!! GF GONE AND EVERY ONE EYEING YOU DOWN SAYING YOU SICK FUCK!
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well hopefully you are in a relationship where you actually talk about things, including sex, and what you like, don't like or would like to try, without fear of reprisal. it doesn't sound like you're in that type of relationship, so it's best to wait.
if you do end up in a relationship like that some day, you still can't force the issue. anal is a big taboo, and the thought of it can be disgusting or just the thought that it will really freaking hurt. if she says no, respect that. although at least the topic is out there so if she changes her mind later, she'll tell you.
finally, if you do every try it, GO SLOW and LOTS OF LUBE. it also helps immensely if you have started with vaginal sex and she is very aroused. keep in mind that once you switch over, you cannot switch back without washing first. she could get a nasty infection.
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Brilliant point Maggie! I totally forgot about that! Yes, you can't go from anus to vagina! This is very important!
I also know that there were a ton of antiquated laws about "buggery" but I'm sure I remember 1 or 2 states instigating or revising them in the 80's. I guess I should look it up rather than depending on my memory! :smile: -
mk thanx for the help.
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i've tried to do this a few times and nothing seems to make it any easier on me. any tips? :confused:
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Lots ane lots of lube and relaxation.
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on the "how to?" side, again, I'm amazed. if you were able to find this site, register and post, well, there are volumes of things to be read on the internet about how to properly put something up someone's butt. Google (news)groups search is a fantastic place to start- try 'anal sex FAQ'. Elf Sternberg is a legend online, his stuff is well written and informed.as for 'do women really enjoy'? I'd like to know myself. I've experimented alone enough to know the basics (along with reading Elf and others way back in the formative years), however, of the... er... handful of women I have tried it with, none were particularly thrilled or wanted to try it again.And, on the hear-say side of things, some catholics use anal sex as a way to have sex without using birth conrol... (dated one, her word, not mine).