As most of you know, I have been going after one girl (Tara) in most of my posts. Well I am not sure where to go from where we are now. we went to this school sponsored event last night, and we both enjoyed and were practically snuggled next to each for most the show, but she had to leave b/c of SWE(Society of Women Engineers) meeting. But my question where should I go from here. We talk some and she is not sure if she wants a relationship b/c the previous guys was an ass and broke her sweet sweet heart, and now she is afraid that i will do the same. I have tried to tell her that I would not do that to her. Honestly I know she is good looking but i can barely remember what she looks like b/c i do not care.....anyway i am not sure how to make her at least try and trust me b/c i am being the sweetest guy i can possibly be..well i do not know, what do you guys think i should do.
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Next move
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how about a little help here
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I think you should stick in there. Staying by her side is a way to prove that you're different from the other jerks she dated. From what you've posted before, it seems she's interested in you but remember that you've made a mistake along the way so I'm thinkin' you may still have some redemption on the way to get to her heart.Ever watched the movie "100 women"?
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nah, never watched it.....and now it seems as if I am getting tested...Last night (I was buzzed, thirsty thursday) and this girl that likes a guy next door to (we are good buds) came into my room and gave me a lap dance and tried to give me a HJ....Now this Saturday another chick is coming to sleep im my room (replacing my roomate for the night) and she has already said her goal is to sleep with me....I hate how all this is happenening when i am trying to work on someone else.
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If she flakes, move on. Try to never get so obsessed with a girl that you can't walk away without a second glance. You could also try not being so sweet. I don't mean be a complete asshat with sprinkles and cherries, just don't take any flaky crap.
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yeah, with her it is hard b/c she is so overloaded thsi semster with credit hours....and since she is atransfer she has some freshman level weed out courses...I am very stern with her, but in a sweet way.
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well things are getting better between us. Today we spent 3 hours with each other, just talking. I guess that is a huge positive, and i was able to keep her happy the whole time.