Hey, hows it going all - well going to cut the crap and get to the point.I am finding increasing trouble keeping my erection, at all times.I am crazy about my current girlfriend, and her being 9 years my senior, i like to perform... but i cant.I seem to be able to get an erection when were on the phone, fully clothed, and often when naked togheter.Albeit we do do alot of forplay, and that might well be the problem, as she does not give head... she thinks it is horrible, which i have no problem with. But keeping my lil friend alive is killing me.There are a few reasons this may be so, just want some advice from those that might know:1. I have a problem with him (unlikely, but i do have trouble with masterbation... finding it hard to get really turned on)2. Something on my mind3. Lack of sleep - at uni.. late nights drinking, having trouble getting my 10 hours a night4. Diet, being at uni, i dont eat veg, as tehre is no-where to make it (all i have is a microwave) but i do take multivitamins5. she doesnt pleasure me enough (possible, but even if we go off the topic of sex i lose it)6. i have some big underlying issues in my life which need to be sorted (i dont know about them yet... but who knows.) any idea's, information is great.If there is someone out there that is a doctor in this or something, even better!
Problem with my body or mind?!
All of those may be possibilities, oakleh. It may also be anxiety about not performing - I suspect that may be most likely. It could also be the first sign of diabetes (easily tested). It could be general stress.How long have you noticed this?
cheers for the reply.To be honest the anxiety is something that crossed my mind. And i do sometimes feel that, yet there are times when i can just get going, and its great. But it seems to be before about 6pm, i am fine, can go as long as she wants. After 6pm, i have trouble in getting him alive, and it seems to be as i get tired in the evenings.I do have a family history is diabetes... i have an amry medical at the weekend, will get it checked then.To be honest, i noticed it back in june. Before then, i would be going good, no matter what time, just generally was a horny, honry person. Then i went away on a lads holiday for 2 weeks, the first week, met a lady, lots of great sex all week, second week met another, and could not get it up all week. gave up trying in the end. After that met my current flame, and its a bit 50-50, sometimes i work sometimes i don't... any ideas?
It's easy to have that happen - you're tired, you don't perform, and that starts off the anxiety every time afterwards.With a family history of diabetes, it definitely should be checked. If that's the cause, when you're treated you'll be fine again.
I had that like last week....
you might wanna try sleeping more.
It also maybe cuz of stressed out
or bad moods
try clearing your mind, getting sleep,
err... latenight drinking.. like sodas or beer?
I have read somewhere that too many beers can lead to not geting it up...