Hi, I realise that this may be a previously posted problem, but I did not see it:I’m not sure If you can help or if this is a question you can answer, but I am becoming increasingly curious and cannot find a response to my situation...Me and my boyfriend have a long distance relationship, so we spend at least an hour or more on the phone to each other a day, in the run-up to one of my trips to see him, I discovered I love to hear his 'noises', from masturbating... he of course asked if I did anything like that and truthfully I told him that I don’t, simply because I do not feel any thing from it, he tried describing what to do and still nothing, he came to the conclusion I must not be doing it correctly... well sure enough when I next went to see him, he tried simulation, oral, fingering and using a small vibrating stimulator... none of this worked... It doesn’t particularly bother me, well didn’t, now I’m doubting I will ever experience an orgasm or pleasure...When researching my situation I read many times that most women do not reach orgasm thru intercourse, but from the clitoris, so what chance do I have...When speaking to him, being with him etc, I get wet, but that’s it.I also have not had sex and don’t plan to.Has anyone heard of anything similar, have any ideas to help?Thanx for your time
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Cant get no satisfaction
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can`t really help u#1 ask a doc#2 try 2 fuck and see how it works. sum women are not as sensitive down there as others
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I find it strange that a man would be able to tell you how to rub off but okay. Are you trying to have an orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone? Supposedly only 25% of women can have an orgasm that way. Personally I don't think any can. I've never met one. Clitoral stimulation is the way to go. ;-) Anyway, don't make such a big deal out of it. That is a sure fire way to give yourself sexual problems. Check out this site and see if it helps. http://www.the-clitoris.com/
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Hi, Thanx... I went on that site and it was reasuring and informative.. I'm still not picticularly bothered by this as I have never have the prev experience to 'know' what Im missing out on... But I thought I'd try something that alot people seem to enjoy...
Having the water from the shower run directly on my clit.
1st occasion: at first I felt nothing then just something.. but as soon as I realised, it was over... after I doubted myself that I did feel something.
2nd occasion: felt good for the smallest time, felt shakes but still just like seconds, nothing major and of course I wanted that feeling back so I carried on trying to 'get it bac' and it was just painful :/
3rd occasion: It occured to be Im either building up a 'feel' for it or the water pressure it too much too quickly, so this time as I start to feel something I move the water angle away from direct and then back again, this time I guess was betta and that made it last slightly longer and I had the slight shakin effect but again nothing big, but still :smile:
I like this feeling like I'm discovering a new side to me. but I still cant get anything from just touching myself...
is there anyone that can offer advice? prev experience that confirms that some have to travel down a progressive road to reach their goal? -
That's some intresting reading.. Seems you need a big fat dildo or penis... lol
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Update: Showering is gd times for me-so much more I mean, still havent cum yet.. be its fun to practice