to the cutter there is nothing wrong with it at the time of cutting its a wounderful thing a great relise. The cutter is proud of what he or she may have done but most of the time only until reality kicks in the kicking in of the fact in the morning your going to have to try and hide your lovley markings or you are going to have to go see a doctor to get your lovley cut sorted. does this stop the cutter from cutting? NO does it fuck a cutter loves to cut becouse they feel inpower in control of what they are doing they feel relaxed relived whatever, they feel better. A cutter needs more than words to be helped a cutter needs action and understanding . Understanding a cutter is hard to a no n or ex cutter ok i dont know why the fuck im writting this cause remeber like sexpot says you cant understand a fucking thing i say can you so it wouldnt matter then to any of you cause you cant understand this shittin post
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WTF!
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as someone who has attempted suiside twice - i would say they ARE your friend and are concerned about your welfair.
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how is it sick? it feels good, so i do it. its like masturbation. do you think thats sick? (dont answer that lol)
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its pretty much the same idea
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people can enjoy cutting themseleves n you can compare it to wanking becouse people enjoy that but in a diffrent way
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In reply to: ..it feels so good, so I just do it.. I can understand that. It's along the lines of BDSM, except without the sex part. Some people tend to enjoy hurting themselves for some reason I don't know. Pain somehow turns to pleasure, maybe it's just a part of the teenage experience. I theorize that, for men, when they do it, it's all a part of their hormones telling them they're invincible, for women, however, I am clueless. I'm going to do some research on this one.
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In reply to:I'm guessing one of them isn't really your best friendNot sure I agree with that one. I'm guessing one of them was worrying themselves sick about you and told your mum out of concern, not to piss you off.And people please...there are these things called full-stops and commas. Familiarise yourselves with them, for the love of God
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lol when you spend enough time on the board... lol you'll get used to it lol
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fuking weird ass people!!! DAMN!"hi, I like cutting myself and causing pain and making myself bleed because its so fuking cool and feels awesome!!"WTF!!!!!!!!! Did your mom do crack or some shit when she was pregnant with you????Be unique by your hobbies, being good at sports, knowing interesting facts about certain topics, not by cutting yourself and being like "OMG I LIKE TO CAUSE PAIN TO MYSELF CAUSE I ROXOR AND AM DIFFERENT, DONT QUESTION ME!!"shit....
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Why bother showing your ignorance? All your post says is "I don't understand, and I have such a high opinion of myself that I think that anything I don't understand must be beneath me".
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there is nothing to understand!!!!!!!!!but I am all ears for the benefits, or logical reasons for cutting ones self.Why do you bother showing your ignorance??? By merely accepting that anything anyone does must be ok and make sense.
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So just because you don't see the logic or benefits in something, that make it unacceptable for other people to do?
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what someone does is there business, but then when that someone trys to tell me its normal and that it is just different but not wrong, its bullshit.But like I previously stated, I am ALL EARS to the benefits and logical reasons that cutting yourself is a good/ok/fun/decent/cool hobby.I cant think of any but maybe its because I am not as elite or genius as some of you so gimme the reasons!!!!
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yes pls, I'd like to see the reasons... I had a gf once who was a cutter and even she knew it was a freaking sickness. She sought help and got over it and she's happier because of it. It happens, it's a sign of depression, but it has no advantages and it should be overcome, not accepted.
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In reply to: like I previously stated, I am ALL EARS to the benefits and logical reasons that cutting yourself is a good/ok/fun/decent/cool hobby. reasons very to who ever it is that is doing it. I’m not a cutter but I do something.. not worse or not better.. and no I 'm not going to tell this forum. I can’t really answer the reasons ( I mean I can for me but I don’t want too) I’m just saying my reason’s are not the same as that's guy's girlfriends or some on this forum. I will say this it's not fun, it's not cool, or good or a hobby. I’m trying my hardest to NOT do it. it's not something u want people to know. I think this is a waste of time but oh well ....bla bla bla..
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exactly, that was my point about cuttingit is wrong, its bad, it isnt healthy, and it surely isnt "different"
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Oh yeah like smoking anything, inhaling aerosols, injecting drugs, steroids, snorting, and so many other things is healthy. Can people remember that cutting is not the only form of self mutilation. I've quit before and have always thought about cutting. I always go back though. I won't explain all the reasons I do it. I don't need to be understood by small minded people.
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Diver you said way earlier that you do it as a trust exersize? (sorry about spelling) like you really downright cut yourself to see if you can trust someone? I am probably reading that wrong but that seems a little bit extreme to me.
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I think you misread it. He meant, he only tells people about it whom he thinks he can trust.
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sorry everyone, i was away. at a mental home actually. just got home yay! anyway, cutting, is not a hobby to me. it is not fun. i do not do it to be unique. cutters are not unique.