Heres the situation...my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me, we tried to work things out, but it just wasn't the same. He broke up with me, and i was devestated! 6 months later, we still talk and are closer friends than we ever were. The problem is that I can't seem to get him out of my head...even though i know he's wrong for me and that i can't trust him. How do i get over him?
Can't get over him...
had/have a friend with the same probl. she was everyday like "damn i miss him", but 1 day she just got to "fuck it , i don
t care anymore" <br />i dont know why this happened . i`m a ask her and tell u
This is like the hardest thing to explain.. There isn't.. well, I can't find a way to get over someone that I really love. I think that no matter what happens the person that you love(d) will always have a place in your heart. It's horrible because it's like we know that this person is not the right one for us, but still we feel the same about them.. WHY?!
Also i noticed you said that you have become good mates, this totally links with my situation. I find it hard being friends because she flirts basically with any boy in the planet and it's just awkward because my friend is going through a relationship problem aswell, meaning that the both of us are getting involved making things awkward... Basically my point is that it's going to be hard to get over him if you're good mates and with him quite a lot, but on the otherhand - if you weren't good mates, then you'd still think about him as much as you do...
If you look through previous posts, there's my one ( Jaxx ) and also one by websexinfo which may help.. but to be honest i'm kinda thinking it will take time, or for when someone else takes your eye... perhaps, I really ain't sure, sorry. Guess we're in the same boat as eachother on this one.
(But if anyone has it would be a great help! )
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