This is going to sound really lame, but does anyone know of any good "get to know somebody" questions...?

Reason I ask is, I am 'kinda' seeing someone, but she does not give me much to work on (next to nothing) and I'm forever having to do the asking (it must so look like an interrogation), and now I'm starting to run out of stuff to ask...!

I suppose really I should take it as disinterest (possibly) but at the same time she could just be painfully shy (she has admitted before now that she worries how people "see" her - why do people get ill-concieved notions about themselves?), and that she feels nervous... Maybe she's trying to be so perfect that, she's verbally 'paralised' in fear...?

Any suggestions greatfully appriciated!