Hello, all, I’m new here. I actually found this place when Google showed one of the topics here about how some guy liked smaller breasts. I would have to agree, smaller breasts on a woman ARE much sexier than larger breasts. Anyway, I wanted to ask if there are any virgins here? I’m 23, will be 24 in March and I’m a virgin. I’m having a hard time with it though. I’m getting "tired" of being a virgin. Girls don’t seem to respect and or want a guy, who’s a virgin, is there a reason for this? It seems as though they think its weird. I'll admit, there aren’t many guys, especially ones my age, which are still virgins. I've held out on having sex for many reasons. First, is because I'd like to be in love with the girl. Secondly, it seems like every girl I meet isn’t a virgin or has been with MANY guys; those are just to name a couple of reasons. I’ve been accused of being gay because I’m a virgin. This gets VERY old! I don’t know what to do. I’ve contemplated just going out and finding some random girl to have sex with, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. That’s just not who I am. I don’t mind waiting, if I’m going to find the right girl, but my search for the “right” girl seems to be going nowhere. I’ve stayed a virgin this long; I guess I can stay a virgin a little longer. I just feel like I’m missing a lot. My buddies always bragging about how great sex is and all of the hot chic’s they’ve had sex with, is just hard to deal with when I’m on the sidelines waiting for the “right” girl.
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Being a virgin...
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I'm only 16, but I plan on going the same way as you. I want to share that with someone I love, ya know. I wouldn't give that up until the time you want. Make other people understand this about you if it bothers you to just tell them that you're a virgin, they may respect you for it
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Thanks! I plan on continuing to be a virgin, its just hard (not that I have offers or anything). Glad to hear someone else is going to be on the same track I am. Good luck with that!
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Hey Cartoon. Although I'm younger than you and can't say I've been through what you have..yet, I'm also waiting.Seems as if society has dubbed it "manly" to break your virginity around the teen years. Just don't let it get to you, and once you find that girl you truly love and who loves you, you'll be laughing at the people who decided to make humor out of the fact you waited.
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Hey Cartoon;If people are taking the piss out of you for being a virgin then you know what you have to do dont you? Lie! Or rather "be economical with the truth"; Though some points: people are not stupid; well atleast there not that stupid; like Goebbels the Nazi spin doctor said:If your going to tell a lie; Tell a big lie! Its more believable! Ie "I was on holiday and met this Brazilian girl by the pool it was love at first sight! She invited me back to her hotel room and we made love for hours!"Anyone with half a brain will know you are lying!Be realistic and be confident about what you say; to the point where you even believe what you made up!Also remember you are a virgin by choice! You could easily get a newspaper find a whore and solve your problem; but you whether you want to do this is your choice; either way you will have to live with it.
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In reply to: If people are taking the piss out of you for being a virgin then you know what you have to do dont you? Lie! Or rather "be economical with the truth"; haha thats a good one...im 15 and im the ONLY virgin out of ALL my friends...and yea, my close friends know that i am, but the rest of the boys...i just lie bout it...why? cuz i just dont want to deal with the whole "hahaha ohhh go pray u mommas boy" or some shit like that, although thats very far from me...lol...my plan, as like many of you is to get laid with someone i like alot, but not someone i LOVE, i dont want to get laid to the person i marry...that is soooo boring...like, i dont want to die fucking like 2 chicks in my whole life...pllleeaasee....Im gonna get laid by a girl that i really like, and have liked 4 along time, so that when i look back on it...ill smile...and itll be a good memory...i dont find it too different from a first kiss...do u remember when you were a kid, and there was always some girl who would never kiss a guy cuz she wanted to wait for a YEAR before doing it...or to do it in the "perfect spot" ....i hate that...i got my first kiss in the middle of a damn moshpit to some girl i dont remember...but a GOOD memory...yessiree...and i know that im going to look at losing my virginity in much the same way in a couple of years
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Cartoon, I think it's a good idea to wait until you're with someone you love. i didn't, and it wasn't the best decision I ever made.
Don't go off with some random chick just to please society - be who you are. Like you said, it's not YOU to have a random one night stand, so don't bother with it. Screw changing who you are just to please other people - you're going to have to live with yourself for the rest of your life, not them. :smile: -
im 20 and a virgindont comform to societies low standardsbe an individual with guts and determinationshows more character