Scared if my GF is pregnant..

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hello everyone. Ive recently become a little worried about my girlfriend because she is like 4 or 5 days late on her period and still has not come, and tells me shes been peeing alot the past week or two (a symptom of pregnancy). I'm thinking its not possible because we use a condom every time, but there were two occasions where we didnt really have sex, but i just stuck it in like, barley an inch into her, maybe 4 times in a row for a few seconds and i didnt cum in her and i know cause she have me a hand job right after and came. I've heard that sperm can live up to 3 days so im wondering if maybe some leftover sperm from a day or 2 ago was on my penis and it managed to swim its way up or what? I know people who have unprotected sex all the time and the girl ends up fine as long as he doesnt finish inside her so i dont see why it should happen to her. im really worried here guys, any info is welcome

p.s. my girlfriend is sadly not on birth control, i encouraged her to start about a month ago but didnt want to cause it was known to add 10 pounds

Most likely she is not pregnant, but I would suggest you use this as a warning not to be so careless in the future. It is possible, though not probable, that when you penetrated her without a condom that some sperm could have been present. It is not unusual, however, for a girl's cycle to be irregular if she is not on birth control.Sperm most probably will not live 3 days outside of a warm, moist environment (like in either yours or her body).How old are you two, anyway?

Im 16 and she's 15

It is common for a 15 year old girl to have an irregular cycle. Lots of things can cause it. Stress being a common one. Chill.

arlight thanks alot. she has been stressing alot over a speech in her class coming up. but what about the peeing? She started peeing alot a few days after the incident.

I doubt she is pregnant, though you have been running a bit of a risk. A pregnancy test would set your minds at ease.

In reply to: I've heard that sperm can live up to 3 days so im wondering if maybe some leftover sperm from a day or 2 ago was on my penis A day or two? Well, I think if you bathed and washed your private parts in that day or two, then this should be no problem. If you didn't, then you should know that it's good to bathe, washing the body and private parts thoroughly after ANY form of sex. After reading the above posts, I really feel that you shouldn't be worried... though people your age should be MUCH more careful.

yeah if she goes on without a period for a while then i think we'll try the test, but right now we're waiting for her period. but she doesnt really drink that much water or anything and she pees like 3 times in an hour or so, is there any other explaination for that? p.s. Im a little reinforced cause we did the same thing a couple times before her last period but it wasnt as deep, like it only touched her and didnt really go inside of her and a few days later her period came

stress can also increase the lateness of her period. my girl was pretty stressed because she was worried she was pregnant. she ended up a week and a bit late, then it came. given your age as well, the stress level can be much higher as you have a lot to go through during your 'development' stage.i would just get a test and get it over with, and i am willing to bet that she will kick in right on cue!

The pressing need to urinate could be from a bladder infection. If that's what it is, it will only get worse and she will begin to pass blood. She might consider seeing a doctor. If it is an infection, you may have it too and the doctor may inquire about her sexual history. A bladder infection, however, is not an STD, but her urethra is very close to her vagina and it's possible that your penis may have had contact with it.

alright thanks, that could very well be the problem since shes recently been experimenting with masturbation alot so she couldve hit her bladder somehow doing so. A bladder infection is a hell of alot better than pregnancy, heh

hello again. It's a new day and theres some good and kind of uneasing news. last night she found a light brown liquid when she washed herself (yes gross but still its apparantly a sign of a period the next morning) and shes been having stomach cramps (im assuming thats also a sign). but this morning around 7:30 there was no period and im still waiting for her to get home to see if it happened durring school. Can anyone verify that brown liquid and stomach cramps are signs of an upcoming period??

nevermind that. Just about 2 minutes after i posted that last reply she got home and gave me the news that she had started her period at 11:00 this morning. I don't think i've felt the relieved ever. This is definately a huge lesson for everyone to learn from. i can definately say that unprotected sex will never be worth the stress and fear you have to go through. Thanks everyone for the support, it really helped drop the stress levels on both of us.

Glad everything is OK. Hopefully this experience will remain with you and you will remember it if you ever let your little head (between you legs) take over the thinking of the head on your shoulders. It only takes once and you can regret it the rest of your life.