For $1000, would you have your bf watch you.....?

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FIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just scaned the posts and here is my view on alternative lifestyles and the love vs sex arguement. I do believe that a relationship can work even when a couple are swingers. Love and Sex are 2 different things. Sex can be used to show up most sign of love, but it doesn't have to necessarily. Sex can just be sex, and the same act can mean different things at different times and different people. Although I would not enjoy seeing my partner fucking some guy or girl, I can understand how it can work out. You really just have to be aware and fullfiled in life and confident in the love presented to you. If a guy is like you bore me in bed I need something more, now that is a different story. I think being a swinger should be for fun and excitement but not for fullfilment, because that definatly does mean something is wrong there. If the swinging were to stop and you only have your original partner and you were just as content I dont see a problem with the acts that were committed as long as both partner is okay with it. We all have different morals and values and I think we all need to respect that even if its something you think is discusting or immoral.

To answer your questions:1)Does God approve of divorce? No he does not. However, in the Bible it states that if a believer should marry a non-believer they (the believer) must not divorce them (the non-believer). However, if the non-believer should choose to leave then they may. And for the record, his wife filed for divorce, and no, she doesn't believe in God.2) Does God approve of pre-marital sex? No he does not. Which is why I'm not having sex with my boyfriend. I've had sex once. The biggest mistake of my life. I thought I loved him and he had other plans. I vowed never to have sex again until I was married and here I am being true to my vow. It's not impossible to sleep in the same room, in the same bed with someone and not have sex. Thank you very much.And also, if you would have bothered to read my previous posts you would have read that if other people want to do that, that's fine with them and I don't care. I just happen to think it's wrong to have sex with people you have no feelings for other than as a "sex toy". You're trying to bait me with this and you don't have a leg to stand on. I've made my reasons very clear why I don't like it and why I think it's wrong. I've also said previously as I'm saying now if you're a "grown-up" you're going to do what you want and I don't care what you do behind closed doors. But my opinion (of having casual sex with someone while your partner looks on) of it is that it's wrong.

To add to my above statement, since I can no longer edit my post, I would like to say that using my situation with my boyfriend and the question you asked that just assumed I was having sex with him was found quite out of line.

I totally agree with Cenfath on all the things she has said. Sex should show your love for you partner. IMO, "swinger" couples have a false sense of fulfillment and don't even know it.

i agree with cenfath also, minus anything that has to do with religion.