ok so i've already posted bout this guy who lives at the beach, i see him like once a month and we're friends with benefits. we haven't gone all the way, and i dont really plan to. the only problem is that i think i maybe falling for him. i dont know if its just a chemical reaction in my head, being a chick and all, or if it could be real. i'm 16 and a sophmore, he's 17 and a senior. even if we could date he has college next year and i dont know where he is going. please give me some advice.
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What do i do?
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You are probably falling for him mainly because he's not there much, so he gets idealised in your mind a bit. You could try to see him a lot more if possible, which might put you off him or might confirm your feelings.
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the guy who told all his friends stuff you did together? ummm...no, i wouldn't go after him.and going to college...well forget it. from how you describe him now he'd never be faithful. heck, most guys and girls would find it hard to stay faithful to someone "back home" when they go to college. just toooooo much stuff goes on there.
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thanks you guys i know your right, not that it'll probally make it any easier.
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no, it's not easy at all. it sucks. but trust me, resist your urges and avoid the pain. in short time you will be really glad you did.