I am not gay but i want to know.........

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I got a friend and I want to jack off with him as a experiment but I dont know how to ask him. can you help me? him and I watch porno together and like talk about sex and wacking off but i dont know.

that is a bit of a sticky situation. the "circle jerk" is sometimes conciderd part of gay sex and sometimes not. i've never done it. i've masterbated with a female partner but again, that's different.masterbating together is some where between sex and not-sex. dudes are terrible at communicating so i don't know what to tell you.before sugesting the activity, mention it in passing and guage his response

There is nothing wrong with being curious. I'm bisexual and it sounds to me like you may have some tendencies. You would enjoy watching your friend masturbate and it would help you get off. I'm not trying to tell you that you like men, I'm just suggesting that maybe you would like helping him jack off or lyou would like it if he helped you jack off? It will probably shock him if you bluntly ask him to masturbate with you. I would find a way to find out what he thinks about it first before you offer.

People who have done this, report they started masturbating and their friend followed their lead. It must be risky, though, because the friend could be disgusted.

Its riskly but here's on suggestion. If you're watching porn simpy say, man I really need some relief, mind if I masturbate? If he says go ahead, then do it and he may join in, or you could encourage him to as well. If he says something like no way or as long as you go somewhere else, then you've got an answer that he's not comfortable with it.

I like Lance's idea. I have used that on people before with other subjects. I have never masturbated with a guy before. I dont know if I ever even will, but that way does work. I got a kid to give me answers to homework using that technigue. lol

I've had some experience in the matter. I had some experiences when I was younger back when I was in middle school. Lance is right. Porn's the best route. I do have some other suggestions to do in conjunction with the porn idea. If you bring lube, condoms, some sort of kinky sex toyish thing you could offer him one. (Jerkin' off with a condom is sort of exciting the first time). That may get him to strip down and wack off with you. Take it slowly, see where it goes. Let us know how it went! Email me if you have any other Q's/ highschoolpremed@netscape.net ¡Buena suerte!

thx that helped me Ill try what lance said ya I am just a little curious

why the fuk would anyone want to jack off with another guy?holy shitIs it that you wanna look at his penis? Or, you wanna see him erect?Or you wanna jack off to him jacking off?You are gay.

maybe you could start off with, "hey, are you gay?"or, "wanna see me rub my dick? because I think it'd be cool if you did, and then I'd rub mine too and we'd be cool"kinda weird bromang

not to say im gay or ne thing, but having some curiosness never hurt ne body. When you are young it is best to have some experience in all sunjects, just in case that comes up in the future. Playing around with a new subject does not declare ne 1 gay, bi, or strait. yes, feelings can come from these type of subjects, but let them come. Not every 'sexual' experience can define someone in the early parts of their life. It is NORMAL to be curios. take a chill pill and find a backseat.PS- i suggest lance's idea. sounds least dangerous, and would keep your friend a friend.

For all you know, your friend could be Bi.. Im straight, but if my friend started jacking off infront of me, I'd start too.. If I didnt, I'd think he would think I was weird (that I dont masturbate) .... really, I dont care who knows or sees me masturbating, Ill be the first to tell you that I do it. If he reached over to grab my penis, I'd let him "cuz datd feel good" I just wouldnt lay a finger on him.

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD AND ALL THAT IS HOLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1)I dont want to see another guy jacking off, sure my friends and I joke about how much we jack off or when or what we do it too, but we dont run around peeking at each other doing it....its a privacy thing and its a male solo thing, shit....2)I dont want another guy watching me that is just fucking sick, if a girl wants to participate sure, but wtf mate!!3)If a friend of mine starting jacking it in front of me, hed get a backhand across the face and hed probably understand and apologize.4)And if any guy ever tried to grab my penis and jack me off, he would meet his maker.Some of you people need help, you need to find Jesus, or Budha or someone, or you need to have a sitdown with your parents if you are really young, or you need to seek therapy......

hey emfb the guy asked a question, and it wasnt do you aprove of masterbating in front of a friend, so unless youve got an answer on topic maybe you should keep of this topic and stop wrecking the guys thread

my advice is to forget about it... you'll more than likely lose a friend or at least make everything weird. And if he says no he's GOING to tell people what you asked.In my opinion it's a bad idea

i actually happen to agree with lynchtheleft, id forget about it because it could weird out you entire friendship, but if you determined to do it the ideas of just start wacking off while your watching porn sound like your best betp.s. glad were finally making progress in 1 thread at least

dude, if you wanna jack off with another dude, go to a chat room, they always have guys in there who are bi/gay/curious and who wanna jack off with other guys, i would however suggest that you put your ideas aboot jacking with ur friend, no matter how common it may be amongst guys in our/your age bracket, and i'd put that idea in a box, and throw it in the nearest pond/lake/ocean...not worth losing a good friend, cuz u are curious...

ROFL listen to gandalf man... keep it secret.Maybe you should have two lives and sets of friends... your gay friends and your straight friends... just don't let them meet

Yep, and if he couldnt tell by my response that he should not attempt it was my opinion than he is dense. Therefore, question answered, Point, Game, Set, Match.