ok, does anybody know of anyway to get a girl's attention. i really like her, but i'm pretty sure that she doesn't like me. i don't think that its anything wrong with my personality for her but it might be. i think it is the way i look, cause i am not totally fat but not skinny. i know a lot of people say u shouldn't change urself but i am willing to do almost anything for her. she is my best friend. i just want her to love me like i love her.
If she knows you, but she doesn't like you, there's not much point trying to change that. People like other people, or not, for reasons that aren't simple or easy to understand. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. It just means she is looking for something different. Trying to change yourself - well, you can gradually make yourself a bit better in various ways, but you can't do it in a hurry, and it's very unlikely that it would make any difference to the way she feels about you.
That's hard to hear, I know. Unrequited love is a bad feeling. :frowning:
she's your best friend, eh? Best to keep the relationship platonic friend. I have to say that 9 times out of 10, those situations don't work out. Most girls just want to date strangers.
First of all i'd need to know the following to be able to give a complete answer:
How long have you been friends with her?
(if it's been too long then it's not as likely she will ever return feelings in that way)
How long have you loved her in that way?
Cross Out The Eyes X.X
-Shut the door on this world, Shut the door on this world-
Websex is right (again!)
Girls always go for the stranger
never their friend or in your case, best friend. Thing is that two of my mates are going out together at the moment, and they are as strong together as ever... Just despite that girls don't seem to want to go out with you if you are their friend WHY?!
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