hi,Lately I've been looking up stuff on the vagina and I'm starting to wonder if mine isn't a bit loose. When I insert a finger there is no real pressure on it, I mean I can feel the vagina walls up and down but I have to slide the finger sideways to encounter the side walls.Is this normal? or am I naturally 'loose'? (I've had sex a grand total of 5 times so far so I don't think it's a factor)
Tightness of vagina
Every woman has very different "parts." Some are naturally bigger than others. It has nothing to do with body size, it's just the way it goes. It has nothing to do with how many times you've had sex or anything like that. If you are concerned about the size of your vaginal opening (which you shouldn't be... any man that you are with isn't going to complain...) you can do kegal exercises... Which is contracting your vaginal muscles and then letting go. Kind of like when you are trying to pinch off urine mid-stream. Do a couple sets a day; you can do them sitting at your desk, watching t.v., in bed, in the shower, anywhere... and nobody can see you doing it, obviously. It will strengthen your vaginal muscles. Trust me, you are completely normal.