Frustratus Maximus

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Oh dear, I've had a very random night.
For those of you who've followed me since the beginning, may recall "L" who legendarily messed me up I'll save the details. Too long a story.

Anyhow, a while back she split up with her boyfriend. Last week, at random, somehow we ended up speaking again, and yesterday we met up for the first time in 20 months or so.

We had a pretty good time and we ended up in her bedroom watching a film.
She invited me out tonight.
So tonight came and I picked her up and we went to a club.

Before she went in she asked if I had any intention of pulling any girls, to which I replied "not really - i never have much luck". She replied with "we'll see...".
I shrugged it off as I didn't think it could mean what I thought it meant.
So we're sitting in the club, and she asks to sit on my lap. I oblige and she sits on my lap and proceeds to grind on my crotch with her ass.
Pretty soon my hands are running her legs and I'm about to pass out from the excitement.

Unfortunately at that point my carp parking ran out and I had to leave. At this point she beckoned me closer and then kissed me. It was something of a surprise. I then had to go, leaving her there (as she chose to stay)...

now I'm confused and incredibly frustrated and I don't know what to think.
I'd rate her as one of the most physically pleasing girls I've ever seen. She's exactly what I go for. She's also angelicly nice, and innocent, whilst having a dirty side.

Do you reckon she was just being a friend, or is there more to it.
More importantly, what do I do next?!

I'd say she was using you to have a bit of fun. She doesn't care how she messes up your feelings - perhaps she even enjoys it. I think she's bad news and you should get up the courage to refuse to do anything with her.

I think it sounds like there's more to it, but I don't take my opinion too seriously, I don't know what I'm talking about, lol.

without knowing your prior situation, it deff sounds like she is hinting at more, whether this be using u, leading you on or hinting.

A cut down version of previous events is here:http://www.intellectualwhores.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=627Not heard from her since other than her saying she got home safe and had a good time.

say fuck no! i'm tellin you, she's going to hurt you again, or fuck with ur head. i wouldn't trust her.

Well I don't think it matters anyway.I think she's started going out with one of her ex-colleagues from her old job.I suppose I was just a quick stop-gap before she found out he was available.

I'm starting to get VERY VERY bitter towards femalekind now.

After all the crap I've been though (L doesn't seem to be talking to me any more by the way) I've had enough of them all.
I'm really starting to experience general "almost hatred" towards females in general. Not to a point where I make it apparent, but I'd just rather not be near one anymore. I'd much rather be on my own than have *anything* to do with a girl, in fear of them screwing me over.

It's sort of s ubconscious thing that I will generally steer clear/avoid/walk away from them after everything has happened.

What can I do?

I realli wish you didn't think that way. I know a lot of cute girls that wouldn't fuck you over, including me I don't know what to tell you b/c usually the angelically nice girls are the ones you want to go for b/c they can be naughty in bed, but she seems to be a lil' airheaded. Not all girls are like this, well at least I don't think so.

In reply to: Not all girls are like this, well at least I don't think so. You're right!! Not all girls are like that, some girls are, but definatley not all of them are. (you seem nice enough lol) But anywayz...I kinda know how you feel just I wouldn't take it out on all girls because it's just some of them are like that.. Give it time you'll see, but for now take care yeah!

in a bad move I asked her out today.On the plus side she didn't totally dismiss the idea...on the downside:a) she's not sure if she's readyb) she has 4 other guys and a girl after her, and needs to pick the one she thinks she'd be best off with...i hold low hopes.

I hate it when that happens.. When more than one person wants someone Thing is it's good that she isn't sure with you to a certain extent, but on the downside, it could be that she doesn't want to hurt you (i'm sorry for being a little blunt) well, when she does give you the answer.. All I can say is if it's good news then great, if bad, try + keep your head up, I know it's hard to take but your not alone on this. Good luck!Take CareJaXx

She's either evil or doesn't have her $hit together enough to know what she wants. Either way I'd be on my way. If you don't mind getting dicked with then have at it, but if you want something more, then find someone else.

Hmm well...she seems to have re-taken her hold on my heart pretty quickly We went out to see a film last night, and afterwards we decided to come back to my house to watch another film.After about 15 mins thru the second film she slides herself under my arm and cuddles up to me. Due to the position I was in, I had no choice but to rest my hand on her ass, which she didn't seem to mind.I took her home after the film and we hugged and went our separate ways.She said she had a really good time and hopes we can do it again soon...So that's the story so far...Still somewhat confused.

Oh God I feel so so stupid.Earlier this week she arranged for me to go over to hers and spend the night. At the same time she was very flirty with me. Great I thought.Today she texts me and says I can't go over after all...and doesn't say why.I ring her and she tells me she's pregnant with some guy she's been seeing for like 2 months...!!!!Nice huh?I feel so dumb That was the final nail in the coffin for my adventures with girls. I can't take it any more. I hate them. They make my life hell and I can't be dealing with it any more.

Well, it should be the final nail in the coffin with this girl. Most girls aren't like her.

in my experience they are. Every single girl so far has driven a stake through my heart...I am yet to find one who isn't.