Conflict of interest

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Well, I dont know if this has been asked before, but it is quite a predictament for me. I work at a public facility along with numerous other people, however there is one in particular that I have taken quite a liking to. So tell this person exactly what I am thinking right? Wrong, I cant, this person's "ex" also works there with us, but when asked if the position was available, "I dont know"

I told a friend of mine what exactly was said, and he replied that most people that break up due to unusal circumstances, use that line because they honestly dont know. But I see them together alot and it wrings me... we talk alot, about all kinds of stuff.. it seems like he is single, but I dont know if I should persue it or let it go because I dont want to touch base on something that can be potentially fatal .. but I really like this guy

What do I do? tell him? or stay away? :confused:

Well it depends. Do you like drama? If yes, go for it. If no, stay away. There are plenty of other people to choose from.

#1 hi#2 follow your heart#3 "If the Bible proves the existence of God, then comics prove the existence of superman" <<< HA!HA! RULZ

Well, im glad you like that quote, as to what was replied to my question, my heart tells me to be cautious but go for it.. and i know there are plenty of other people to "choose" from, however, i doubt there it many other people like this guy.. good ones in this town are few and far between, so i guess tonight i see how far my luck stretches

Now see that's where people get into trouble. There are other great people out there, he's not the only one. And it is completely ridiculous for you to think he is. I am VERY happily married and I don't think my husbands the only great guy in the world. If he left me I'd be devastated but I'd know I could find someone else.
Everyone has bad points. If you are seeing this person for who they really are name 5 bad things about them. If you can't then you don't know them well enough to say he's the only great guy in your town.
It still comes down to how you feel about drama.