I have never had an orgasm that someone else has given me. When I masturbate I get one just fine, but when any of my boyfriends or my fiance has ever had sex with me or done anything with me I don't get off. What advice can you give me? I know something's got to be wrong with me, but I would like it fixed. Help!
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Not Having Orgasms! Advice?
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nothing is wrong with you. many women don't have orgasms during sex. often it is because either their partner doesn't know what to do. the other reason is because you need to tell your partner what it takes to get you off. you obviously know because you can come via masturbation. start talkin'!
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Yup you have to tell him once the pants come off.make shure he warms you up by the out side,lips and clit, it is a major sensor area and you cant have the guys going in withought unlocking the gate that wrecks every thing and talkthe whole time.not a normal talk like up left down right in out slow fast please thannk you.more of a calm suddle way example "o thats nice babe.......take that a bit to your right thats were i want it"somthing like that slow sounding like ur liking what there doing (even if ur not) and telling them were to go were u really want it"if the guy feels like he is totaly fucking up then he might not be cumfy with oyu to long.make us think were doing good but tell us were to improve.my 2cents
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123maggie is correct! Tell the young snippet what pleases you! He has to learn someday that "slam-bam-thank-you-mam" doesn't work. A lot of young males are ignorant of a women's want's and needs and must be taught. Teach him how you want to be touched and pleasured! It's your body and he must be respectful to your desires. NCIX: Don't type too fast. Your response is almost unreadable.
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NONONONO!!!!! There is nothing wrong with you! Sex is not about orgasm, it's about the experience regardless of whether or not you orgasm. There is nothing wrong with you.
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Please, don’t be objective oriented during sex! It’s all about the joy. Have fun! You are OK!