Okay, I have a question and maybe someone can help. I'm very strait, and I know it... but (bet you knew that was comming) I have this friend that is the same sex as me and I'm kind of attracted to her. I don't really want to act on anything that I feel, but is it normal to be attracted to one of your friends like that? Could I be confussing my attraction with another emotion I feel for her or what? I'm confussed!
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A little confussed...
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You probably are just confused about your emotions. But even if thats not the case, its perfectly natural to have these kind of urges...feelings..whatever. Im assuming that your a teen, and therefore your hormones are going haywire. Most people go through a time where they think they may be attracted to a member of the same sex, your definitly not alone.
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Don’t worry! You’re OK. I had a ton of weird ideas growing up (and still do sometimes).
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It's totally normal. I think everyone finds those feelings at one time or another. I even know str8 women that masturbate thinking about having sex with women and they would never want to actually do it. They just enjoy the thought of it.
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Well I'm 18 and I just got out of high school, and I've known her for ever and shes one of my closest friends. It's like I'm attracted to her, but it's not like I want to act on these urges. It just has me a little confussed.
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im 18 also. i have had the same kind of crushes on my female friends. i still do on one. ive never acted on it either. its not like i have a sexual drive to act on it..i just...this she is sexualy attractive. i think it has to do with something about wanting to be liek them...like admiring them. not wanting to have sex with them
