All right. I have a friend I've known for over a year, a pretty close friend and everything. Well I like her as more-than-a-friend (as you probably know, why would I be writing this if I didn't, right?), and I got a feeling she liked me that way too, but I wasn't sure. So I asked her to a dance. I just got back from said dance a couple hours ago.Well, during the dance, for the first little bit she thought it was really weird and we didn't dance at all. She was kind of embarrased for some reason. Then she appeared to come around and started dancing, and didn't seem like she thought it was weird at all or anything. My plan had been to ask her out during the last slow dance, but we were leaving an hour early to go to a party, and I assumed there would be one more, and there wasn't, so I never got the chance.Anyway, at the party, I got the feeling she liked me again, the way she was acting. So I figured she didn't think it was weird or anything at the dance.Well, I left before she did, and just a few minutes ago, I got off MSN with her, and I asked her if she had a good time. She said yeah, then I asked her if she still thought it was weird at the end, and she said yeah she did.So my point after this long post that only about one person has probably made it through is...Help!?!? I want to ask her out badly, but if she thought it was weird, well, she'll probably say no... can anybody help me out at all here?
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Help! (long post, sorry)
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keep on goin to dances and partys with her and after sum time just ask her
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Casually flirt with her, see how she 'reacts' to it. You need to build it all up, you can't just ask her out like that. So, you need to be more closer with her. What sometimes gives you the impression that she likes you, I mean does she say/do anything?
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Be direct and don't fart around. Ask her out now or the suspense will kill you. Ladies like guys to be direct and above board, at least you will know where you stand! BE HONEST WITH HER!
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I dissagree with the last guy.. if she thinks it's wierd, you're right. She probably won't go for it. My advice, go to some more dances, or parties. Casually flirt. Joke around. See how she reacts to everything. If all goes well, give it a shot.
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nwiguy is right. I like guys will balls. If you're not willing to put it out there you not man enough for me to go out with.That's why guys always think chicks like a$$holes. It's actually we like guys that are self assured. And A$$holes are usually that if nothing else.Ask her out what have you got to lose?