I have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year. for the first six months of our relationship it was very physical and we would fool around 3-4 times a week as the relationship progressed the less we would do anythhing. currently we fool around around once every two weeks and when we do its really hard for her to get into it. i know that i love her more and more as our relationship progresses and i know its the same with her. of course i would never end the relationshipover this i just am in a state of perpetual horniness. i was wonderingif this is normal.
Not sure if this is normal
Perhaps you two need to try something new as far as "fooling around" goes. Find new, fun ways to please each other.
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i think thats oneof the problems we both dont want tohave sex until we are married and we have kind of doneeverything there is up to that point.
By excluding sex you really narrow down what you two can do together as far as fooling around. So I imagine that it wouldn't take long to try most of the common things you can do what you play around. In terms of how much fooling around you two have been doing, it's natural for you to feel super horny considering you were getting so much attention before and now you're getting not nearly as much. Plus there was no decline period, she just pretty much shut the valve on ya.
The trick here is to get her in the mood. When people first start messing around it's easy to go from making out while "trying" to watch a movie to having sex 15 minutes later on the couch. After being together for a while, it takes a little more effort. Take her out, give her roses, make her dinner, don't pass up an opportunity to cuddle, etc etc. If you don't get her mad and "that time of the month isn't in sight for a while" then you'll be in good shape.