That question has been haunting me quite awhile now. Basically, it concerns someone I've been in love with for a little bit over a year. About half a year ago, he confessed feelings for me and ever since then he "loves" me. Something is stopping us currently from being together (that is a totally different subject) so he's tried to move on for the time being. He had one relationship about a month ago and even throughout that relationship with her, he told me she was nothing compared to me and that he only wanted me. He broke up with her and for a while continued making out with her when they were just friends.He tells me such intense things that I always find hard to believe for some reason. Just last night he told me he'd die for me, and that I have absolutely no clue how much he loves me. He told me I'm his life. Yet, I always feel a sense of doubt because I suppose he's not so good with showing this to me in person. It's always through phone or IM that he tells me such things and otherwise, I feel as if there's nothing between us. In school, he has his friends, I have mine, and that's fine. Yet, I rarely see him, and when I do it's as if no words of love have been exchanged between us. He says eventually once the thing that is stopping us from being together fades away, he will show me how much I mean to him. So basically, circumstances can't allow us to be together now, but eventually he will help me overcome when the time is right.Does it seem I just have trouble accepting his feelings or does it seem as if perhaps he's bluffing? Or what?
How can you tell if someone is being sincere?
And it's you I see
But you don't see me.
i dont know wat these extenuating circumstances are why you cant be togethor but as long as he is with other girls you are going to be insecure about anything that he says and it is proborably going to drive you crazy-- if he is as in love with you as he says tell him that he has to stop doing this or else you will stop talking to him-- if he says no than you will have to get over him and if he says ok than it will proborably be easier to believe him