How bad does it hurt when you have sex for the first time? I've never had sex (because I haven't found the right person and I plan to wait till marriage), and I was just wondering if it hurt as bad as some people have told me, or if they're just trying to scare me so I wont have sex (although that wont work because I'll have it when I'm ready and not before then lol).
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Tell me the truth...
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As long as you're relaxed and wet you should be fine.
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It won't kill you but just think about what's going on and you'll have a good idea of how you'll handle it. There is skin that will be tearing. Combine that with where it is.Amanda’s right though. Relax make sure you're wet, natural or bottled, and just remember to breath. It sounds stupid but if it eases the pain of labor I'm sure it will help in that case too.
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It barely hurt my first time at all. It was a little bit painful for a few minutes, but it got better real fast!
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Thanks, I was just wondering if it really hurt as bad as people say, but I guess it's diffrent for diffrent people. Thanks again!