WTF!??!?!

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Ok, there's a girl named Michelle.I like her a lot. I dunno if she likes me, though. I noticed one time I was walking and she sped up to reach me and said hey. Is that a sign? I think word got out that I liked her and I'm not sure what she thinks now. What do you girls say when a guy that you are friends with likes you and you are unsure of what to think about him?

How old are you two?

Well, at least she's friendly - that's a start. Why not talk to her and tell her you like her and see what she says?

Yeah, talk to her. Clear communication is one of the best things you can have in a relationship.

Talking to her is the problem. I can't talk to her straight except for on AIM. But I forgot to mention something. Once on AIM, I was talking to her and I had nothing to say and she said, "You're sure quiet, aren't you?" Is that a sign she wants to talk to me and maybe go out with me?

It seems like she may be interested in you. But the question is what kind of interest: romantic or friend. If you want to be with her romantically, jump on it before she cares for you as a friend. I used to become friends with the girls I wanted to be with. Every time it's I don't like you "that way". Bunch of BS. Girls would rather date more of a stranger than to like you as a friend and date you.

I think her saying, "you're so quiet" meant exactly what it said...you were being quiet. I think you're reading too much into things.

She told me she was talking to a lot of other people for 1. Nobody has said it to me, usually, they don't give a crap. I dunno. Websexinfo, lol, I guess I was thinking it the wrong way. I became really good friends with this chick before she became FAB. She was like hangin around me all the time. Anyway, I asked her out and she got all freaked out. She broke up with her bf for me and then got all weird and started making excuses not to be with me. I was surprised. Then, she got a dermotologist job, she got a nice ass, and then the guys were all over her. Lol, no chance for me. We are extremely good friends now, and I won't ask her out because I know she'd turn me down. She probably likes to have fun with me and flirt with me but doesn't want to get all romantic, you see?

But Michelle, she is strange. I swear that she likes me sometimes. Also, do girls perfer guys coming up to them upfront and asking them out, or do they not care if it's on the internet or in a note?

It's best to do it in person. Notes=bad. It may take more guts, but in the end it works out best.

Heh, I took a major step tonight. My ex is always flirting with me. She's giving me mixed signals because I know she doesn't want to be with me. I'm getting tired of it all. Something I never thought I'd get to feel.

I guess I'll arrange something this weekend or something where I'll get some friends including her, and I'll get her alone and ask her out.