... of his fondness to other girl?Ok, this may sound a strange question. We always expect our partners to be honest with us, but saying that we want absolute honesty is a bit dishonest, is'nt it?I love my boyfriend and trust him completely, in return he trusts me just as much. I am certain he does'nt do anything that will displease me... but something bothers me lately. There is a girl he know and he always tell me about her, what he does'nt like about her and the life she leads, but he'd always defend her when I'd make a harsh comment. And then lately I can only hear how fond he is to her and why he likes her, and how, when things go wrong on her, he felt bad... and it's really putting me off. I can understand when someone grows too attached to a certain person, but what I fear is that he might have grown too deeply involved with her, even without knowing it.Is it normal for men to be too involved to women that way, even if they continuously profess their love for their girlfriend?P.S. He did'nt change on me, he was still as sweet and thoughtful and very much the person I fell inlove with.
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Why would a man tell his girlfriend...
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There was this girl that I felt bad for and I always defended her whenever people talked badly about what she was doing. Although I was fond of her, I never went out with her because her best friend had a major crush on me and I'm not one to break up best friends. I never knew anyone else that did the same thing so I couldn't tell you if it was normal or not, but since your boyfriend is the same way I guess I'm not the only one.
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My husband will tell me if he is sexually attracted to another woman. And I'm fine with it. We’re open to talking about our sexuality.But what you're saying is a bit different. I think I'd be okay with it but I can't say for sure. I can be VERY jealous. If I honestly thought he had feelings of leaving me for her I'd mostly likely talk to him about it and if things didn't clear up I'd leave.But hat's just me and I'm not suggesting that's what you should do. I'm a cut my losses kind of person.
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Well, ok... assuming the bestfriend of that girl does'nt have a crush on you, would you ask her out?I know my boyfriend never asked that girl out, but whenever someone asks her out he is always to criticise the guy... I don't know if I am so naive or what, but I am still holding up my emotions- he does'nt even know I am beginning to feel jealous for that girl , and I don't even know her...
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I don't have a problem knowing if he was sexually attracted to other women, particularly the physically attractive women; I understand that is in the nature of men, to adore beautiful women... but I will certainly have a huge problem if there is emotion involved.It's kind of confusing me because I know he cares a lot about me, not a day will pass without us talking and reaffirming our love for each other and planning the future, but once this girl came as the subject of conversation, I always feel sick... and more so when I can feel how affected he is when she is distressed...
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Well, since I didn't have a girlfriend I probably would have asked her out. Have you told him how you feel when he talks about her? Tell him you're starting to feel jealous. The key is not to blow up. Stay calm and refrain from pushing him too hard. If he feels like you think you're the only one he can care about then he might just run off.
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Don't tell him you're jealous! That's probably what he wants. He is most likely insecure, about this relationship and needs to reinforce his position with you. Just ignore it. It's simply a ploy. Think about this: Who does he always spend his time with? You. Not her. Tell him to knock it off and grow up! You're, obviously, very special to him.