Homosexual Experimentation pre-teen/early teen yrs

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When I was around 13 years old, a friend of mine invited me over to his house. It was a day when school had been cancelled due to bad weather. We played around doing regular stuff, then he showed me his Dads porno collection. (both his Parents were at work) His Father hid girlie magazines in the work shop in the basement. We started looking through the books, and both became very aroused. My buddy started saying he was getting a boner and asked if I was too. I answered stupidly "What's a boner?" He laughed and said "Like this!" I looked, and he had pulled out his pecker through his jogging pants. He then ordered me to pull mine out too. I didn't want to, but I unzipped my jeans, and pulled my dick out through the flap in my under-shorts. The next thing that happened was weird. He reached over and grabbed my dick, and fent it. When he did, my dick got harder. He then told me to feel his, which I hesitanted in doing, but did eventually do. It felt different hold onto another guys dick. Later we totally stripped off our pants, and sat together on an old couch. I rubbed his cock, and he rubbed mine. We both ended up cumming in each others hands. It was a one time deal, and we never really spoke about it much afterwards.Has this ever happened to anyone else? Either male or female. I'd like to hear about your experience.

Wow... I don't think that is normal, but I don't know a lot about these stuff.

But how old are you now, and do you still want to do it again? (aka: are you gay, bi or hetero)

Well, if you would say hetero, I would find it very weird. But I believe that a person can decide for him/her own what they are.

And also, it was an experiment, I think. But I don't think I'll experiment that :P But I understand, now you know how it is :P

PS: Is he still your friend now?

Hmmmm. I don't think this is gay. In most cases you guys know I would say it was. But you don't really seem to be willing. It isn't something you want to do. You were erect from the mags not from your body. And if someone plays with you whether you like it or not your goods are going to respond.Now if you wanted the guy to do it and you wanted to touch him, then that would be gay/bi. But I think your friend may have had a little too much influence over you and he may not be the best person for you to hang with.

hey u got nothin to worry about... happen to me once too... the kid that got me started masturbating when i was like 12... we used to masturbate all the time together... just in each other's presence... just cuz we had nothin better to do... one time he just grabbed my dick and started jerkin once when we were masturbatin... and i looked at him like... what the hell... and he said... dude it's just skin... then after that i jerked him for a bit... never really did it again... and it's not like i have fantasies about other dudes... im perfectly straight... just pre-teens guys being pre-teen guys... nothin to worry about

Just so everyone knows he didnt ask if he was gay from that experiment. On topic: When I was around 10 years old I was with my frined(9) and we played with ourselves. We didnt touch each other we looked at eachother and kinda masturbated by looking at the other person. It's not really much of a homosexual expierence but it's close.

this kind of thing is extremely common.I'm really curious, though:ilikekisses, what is your definition of 'gay'?

Look at the other posts on this subjest. In short, I think if you can get it up for someone of the same sex, with the act impending you're either gay or bi.

When I was like 7 years old I sucked a 14 year old guy when he told me to. I wasn't being gay I was just kinda doing what I was told. Im glad he never cummed though that would have been gross.

Sorry, but that is messed up!

Honoustly, that is kind of messed up. This isn't normal you know, you could even sue that guy for lots and lots of money. I hope it wasn't someone from your family. PS: That add on this forum, with the lie detector, is real crappy.

no it was one of my brothers friends. And I would never tell anyone.

nah thats not gay yall were just horny and experiementing. when i was real young my best freind was a chick and well we over did the whole experimenting thing with each other to the point were i ate a chick out when i was 11. i guess i should be glad my only friend was a girl at that age.

Lots of boys experiment like that when they become sexually aware. In your case a possibly older and certainly more aggresive boy was leading and this is also very common. It doesnt make either one necessarily gay. You have to learn about this stuff somehow and boys being more sexually outgoing (with each other anyway) will often experiment this way. I was shown how to masturbate by a friend and later we masturbated each other and even sucked each other to "see how it felt"! I did this with other boys as well but never came that way.

Yup, have also done this :smile:

Best friend and I had oral sex. :open_mouth:
Back when we were around 10 I think...

Neither of us felt weird about it really, it was more like a kind of play for fun. Had its advantages too, I knew what a blow job felt like early on. :laughing: And it felt sooo good, hehe. It was actually something I wouldn't like to have been without, now that I think of it. It's a special memory having sucked a guy without having felt weird about it. Now I would probably not like it though. Strange.

I'm straight and don't like watching e.g. gay movies at all. And is really turned on by hot women, so this isn't at all gay or anything, just experiments.

When I was about 9, myself, a friend and his brother used to show each other our cocks, see who could get 'a stiffy' first and then rub them together. We used to build places to hide in fields and make rules like 'you can only come in with your trousers off and with a stiffy'.
I'm bisexual and also enjoy being naked outdoors and in places where I should wear clothes, so maybe there is something in childhood experiences that makes you who you are when you grow up.

I WENT TO SPEND THE NIGHT WITH ONE OF MY FRIENDS WHO WAS MOVING AWAY. THERE WAS A LOT OF OTHERS BOYS THERE. WE WERE ABOUT 10. WE STAYED UP LATE WATCHING MOVIES WHILE THE OTHER BOYS WERE ASLEEP. WE STARTED TO TALK ABOUT PUBIC HAIR AND HE SHOWED ME HIS AND I SHOWED HIM MINE.WE WERE JUST COMPARING WHO HAD MORE AND THEN IT WENT TO COMPARING DICKS. MINE DICK WAS BIGGER ( HA HA ). WE WERE TIRED SO WE STARTED TO GO TO SLEEP AND HE REACHED IN MY PANTS AND STARTED RUBBING MY DICK. AT FIRST I DIDN'T WANT HIM TO BUT IT FELT GOOD. HE TOOK MY HAND AND PUT IT ON HIS. I BEGAN TO JACK HIM OFF WHILE HE DID THE SAME TO HE. IT WAS WEIRD BUT AT THE TIME I ENJOYED IT. IT HAS NOT HAPPENED SINCE THEN.

turn your damn caps off.

Was up Playa Actually yes the same thing happend to me to be exact. I was 13 years old and my best friend was over at me house for my lil sisters birthday party cause he was realy close with my family and We had just got done playing the video game and it was like 5 in the morning and we were laying next to each other in my bed and he began to rub my leg and ASKED Me was i his best friend and i then told him yea why. and he then had reached over and kissed me. And shocked and confused i FUSSED and said WHAT THE HELL. and all he did was laugh he then DID it again and this time I KISSED back... Not knowing wat to do. and going with the flow i then got on top of him and we just kept kissing and become very turned on my DICK got real hard. and SO DID HIS. and he then began to unbutton my pants with my sitting on his chest he opened his mouth and began sucking my dick and i was in complete AWWWWWWWWWW. dazed and amazed he then made me do the same. Sucking his dick he then asked did i wanna try more and The next thing you know he BUSTS out with a condom and THAT IS THE NIGHT I LOST MY VIRGINITY and BECAME Bi-Sexual and till this DAY im 16 we are still best friends and FUCK EVERY NIGHT

this has happened to me before
pretty much the same thing
i think if you don't want the experience to bite you in your but one day, don't even try.
it's bothering almost everyday.

I get you adverse. My experience wasn't even voluntary and I wouldn't give myself a break for years. Maybe if you poke around here enough you'll see how normal you are and maybe learn to be less bothered about it.