How physical can you get with a friend before it becomes more than just a friendship?
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How much is too much?
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Friends can have sex as long as they both KNOW and still say it's just for the sex, a bit like masturbation.But of course, the human mind doesn't really let you get away with that, because then you start fanatasising, and then you start fancying, etc etc.Scrubs is an excellent example. JD and Elliot are fuck buddies and mates. Then JD falls for her
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OK, apart from sex, and without making reference to Scrubs, how close can two friends get before it becomes more than friendship? Where is the boundary, is it touching, kissing, etc.... ?
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unfortunately, we are built to get complicated.I've had a LOT of "fuckin' friends" and I think I might actually love them all.That's not a bad thing but it's a lot of weight to carry.Here's what I think is important... before the clothes come off, discuss what happens tomorrow. You have to be open. Discuss if you plan to become lovers or remain friends.
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being just a fuck buddy CAN be done. there's a guy i was fuck buddies with. if neither of us were seeing ppl and needed some - we'd call each other.. usually he came to my house - we'd go to bed - do the deed (usually several times) i'd fall asleep after and he'd get dressed and leave, locking the door behind himself. was never anything more than that. and to be honest - was some awesome sex.
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If there are more than platonic feelings/intensions then it is no longer JUST a friendship.
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mine was platonic - just happened that we'd had sex.
