Girlfriend troubles

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ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a month and i still havent kissed her yet. I try to but she never looks up at me when im hugging or holding her. i want to kiss her really bad, but i dont know what to do. I dont love her, or even have a crush on her and i think she feels the same way about me. Im sure what to do, any advise will help. thank you

You don't love her or even have a crush on her? Whay exactly are you going out with her? Why did you ask her out? or, if she asked you out, why did you say yes? Also, you want to kiss her? If she doesn't look up at you its not a problem. Just lightly kiss her neck, and maybe she'll let you kiss her on the lips, now that she knows that you want to.

I asked her out because i liked her at the time, bnut i dont anymore. But i dont want to break up with her right now because i dont like anyone else. shes "the girl i could live with, not the girl i couldnt live without." so i do want to kiss her and do stuff with her. and i cant really kiss her neck cause im too tall lol, shes average height, but im really tall. Anyone else have any advise?

In reply to: Anyone else have any advise? You don't like my advice? Fine! lolI've had the height problem before, I'm 5 foot 11 and she was 5 foot 2. Do you ever lie or sit on a sofa/couch together? This usually solves any major height difference and allows for extra adjustments, especially if you're lying down.OR, you could just go for the whole 'tell her you want to kiss' thing, it will either get you kissing or find out if she like you. Maybe even both.

lol i liked it, but i just want other opinions too lolim never with her at one of our houses though, we are always doing things likes going to footballs. and asking her if i can kiss wont work because then we will probably break up cause i dont like her and im pretty sure she doesnt like me so wed probably start to talk about that

Well, then you're screwed. lolWhat do you do with her, when you're not trying to kiss her. How far have you got with her?

Im like always trying to kiss her, i always am holding her and holding holding hands. the farthest ive gone is standing behind her with my hand on her stomach lol. I dont think shes ever kissed anyone though

Well, there ya go. Standing behind her is good. You can kneel or crouch and she won't notice. lol

If you think she hasn't kissed anyone before that may be why she seems to not like you, she's probably just nervous or something. When standing behind her, crouch down and kiss her on the cheek. See how she reacts.

I know I seem to be saying the same stuff over and over but you should try it. And if you're afraid of breaking up with her and being single again, just think, a month ago, was it really that bad?

First, I have to say I'm not sure I agree with only going out with her because you don't like anyone else. Let's say she has never kissed anyone else before and she does kiss you. Her first kiss is going to mean pretty much nothing because you don't even like her. And in the near future I'm sure you're going to like someone else then what are you going to do? Break up with her and then chase after the other girl? Or even worse, try to get with the other girl while going out with your current girlfriend. Either way it's a bad situation. Why have you lost interest?If you decide to proceed anyway and try to kiss her, then the easiest way is to work from a regular hug. When you hug her she has her head down. When you two start to pull away at the end of the hug, stop her from pulling away too far with one arm and then gently and suggestively caress her chin upwards by brushing up with your fingers. When she's finally looking straight at you, slowly lean in and... there ya go. Easy as 1 2 3.

Move in really close and let her bridge the gap if you get my drift!

i like her suggestion but i also think its not right to take the girls first kiss and then break up with her thats fucked up y kiss her if your not intrested