I broke up with my boyfriend in 2001, he was my first love. I still love him today as much as when we were together. I've had relationships since but it was nothing compared to him. Subconciously i always compare my feelings, eventhough i know its not right.It was a long distance relationship and because of this he doesn't want to try again eventhough i know he still feels the same for me. When we meet up at events he finds it hard to talk to me cos of his feelings.What should i do, however much i try to get over him i can't. I feel like crying that i lost him and i want him back so much it hurts. I try not to think about him or have much contact with him, i took down all the photos and don't look at them. But the feelings just won't go.
I still love him....
I'll narrow it down to 2 choices.1. Do the "impossible" and get over the guy.2. Talk to him about moving over there and if things look promising then do it.If you want to further explore choice # 1 then let me know.
I know exactly how you feel... I've been in love with the same guy since I was 13 years old (I'm 18 now). I only realized that it was 'love' I was feeling for him a year ago becuase I almost lost him (long story). Him and I have dated on and off for as long as I can remember, and now we no longer talk. I miss him, I still love him, but after a lot (I mean a lot) of soul searching, I know I wouldn't go back to him given the chance. You need to give yourself time and space and although I don't think you'll stop loving him completly, you will be able to eventually find the love you want and need (and want to share) with someone else. It'll be really hard (believe me, I know), but eventually you'll be able to move on.
things we've learned from the movies - - when they're alone, all foreigners prefer to speak English to each other....
let meput it like this your first love will always be your first love