Ok i have been seeing a girl who's dad owns a carnival and she has a boyfriend who lives in south africa and comes to work for him every summer. She has told me she likes me more and more every day we hang out which makes me think that she will break up with her boyfriend for me. Well she said shes not going too but if things with her boyfriend dont work she is going to call me. Now it hurts enough knowing that after Summer shes going away to college, and her boyfriend will still be here when she leaves so i wont get to see her. The reason being is becuase everytime we hang out We cuddle, she bites my ear. We have sexy corny names for each, she teases me, i tease her. We give each other massages. Ive only known this girl for a month but i seriously love her.. My days dont exist without her. Right know she is in kansas city visiting family and it HURTS so much. there isnt one minute when i dont think about her. I cry everytime i think about when her boyfriend comes us not being able to see each other much at all. He works for her dad and he asks her to go on the road with him while they travel and do the carnival.Right know we see each other everyday and i love EVERY minute of it. She knows i do and shes even started crying becuase shes afraid im going to get hurt. I cant stand this anymore it makes me think about doing awfull things to myselfI am already on Anti-Depressents and lately they have not been working. I have been off food. I'm tired, i never feel like doing anything but hanging out with her. We have spent the night at each others house cuddling ALL night long and the nights i dont stay over there i cry myself to sleep becusae im so lonely and i know i cant have her.PLEASE WHAT CAN I DO?? YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS HURTSshe knows how i feel, and i know how she feels. She likes me alot but shes not willing to break up with her boyfriend. My parents have told me to stay away from her but its so hard to do because it hurts just her not being in my day, in my every hour or even in my every minute.
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How Do i get over a girl i like but has a bfriend?
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#1 make her break up with her boyfriendor#2 get a new girl and forget about this oneor#3 join the army , you pussy. in the army you gotta do your job and no1 gives a shit about you feeling lonely / being hungry / bleeding to death
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Cut it with calling people pussy.
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You're such an asshole, and most of your responses don't make any sense. How the hell would he MAKE her break up with her boyfriend? His question was HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT A GIRL, so you telling him to just forget about her doesn't help at all either. If you're not going to have something useful to say, don't say anything at all.
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is puss ok ? In reply to: How the hell would he MAKE her break up with her boyfriend? ok s1m0n, watch and learn :#1 make him cheat. get a prostitute and tell her to do everything possible to get screwed by that guy. don
t forget to take pictures and keep in touch with the bitch so she can testify#2 get them apart. if they havent seen each other for a long time and they are eager to meet again, be sure to have a problem at hand, that can only be solved by her. without himif you need more help just tell me . -
suggestions?
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Wow.. That reply didn't help out your cause. It seemed as if you were trying to suggest a really stupid insane idea just to be funny, but you are serious about this, and that's sad, but still slightly amusing.
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more ? wasn`t that enough ? =))
#2 this is what special forces does to people , makes you creative =)
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and stupid?
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I kinda thought she might be using me. But it really doesnt seem like that... When it comes to lieing i can usually tell especially with girls. when were together our time together is truly sincere. The last couple of days she has gotten incredibly jelous when i went and hung out with this other girl thats liked me. Today me and her (the girl im trying to get over) went to the mall. I met some girl there and started talkign to her right in front of this girl and i got her number aswell. she was seriously mad at me..Then we went to my house and it got incredibly steamy and hot in my room. There was back rubbing, ear biting, neck kissing, dry humping all types of stuff. i took her home and we kissed and she invited me in but i declined. I can usually tell if im getting used since its happened to me before. she really does like me.. But she also really does like her boyfriend.She brings him up alot to remind herself that she has a boyfriend and that we need to be JUST friends but it seems like she cant control herself or keep her hands off me.Shes confusing.
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In reply to:
she knows how i feel, and i know how she feels. She likes me alot but shes not willing to break up with her boyfriend....She brings him up alot to remind herself that she has a boyfriend and that we need to be JUST friends but it seems like she cant control herself or keep her hands off me.
hey simon.
i've been in the same situation as you. its honestly sucks. i hate to break it to you, but she is using you. she has no regard for your feelings. she wants more than she can have, and doesnt care who she walks all over to get what she wants.
believe me, you can't go on like this
i know how you feel for her, i know she has feelings for you.
but you have to end everything with her for your own sake.
she is tieing you up with unrealistic demandsend everything with her.
it will sting at first
but soon after.. you will realise you honestly dont need her to be happy, your life does not need to revolve around her (even though it has for a while).
it will be one of the hardest things to do, but the best thing for your own health, and to put her in her place.believe me man.. i've been there... except for me it was for alot longer than 1 month... and took me ages to get the balls
this is going to sound really harsh, but its the best thing: cut her out like a cancereous cell. dont' see her again, dont talk to her again. its already obvious you can't be just friends.
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First, have to get this out... ask^ghost: YOURE NOT IN THE MILITARY OF THE USA, SO YOURE NOT "SPECIAL FORCES"! So stop acting like the tough guy, this is a place where people want help, and it will really effect their lives.
Ok, this girl definately sounds like she's in it for a free ride, shes making you feel like she needs you or might need you later, but in reality all you are doing is waiting.... When you could be looking for a girl that would REALLY care about you. She wouldnt be doing this if she cared.