hi i just turned 16 but i have never made out with a girl. im really not too sure what to do.. like is it something that i can just kind of catch on to? any suggestions?
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Kissing/making out
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Well I think you should do whatever makes you feel good. My first time making out was sloppy. My bf(at the time) slobbered all over me. I was likke...ew..but put up with it. Later we just started getting use to it, Don't be rough, don't be too gentle, but be sensual. Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I had this great website that taught how to be more of a sensual kisser. For now I advise you to just check out websites at google!You can play tongue hockey with an Ice Breaker lol. Me and my ex use to use our tongues and try to get the tasty ice breaker out of each other's mouth, gross, but fun...and we really didn't care about each other's saliva. HAHAHA! NOw I htink about it I remember we use to make out in front of my friends and they'd be like EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW niagra falls!!!! It was funny. But w/e. Hope you have fun. also don't shove you tongue down each others throat. THe roof of the tongue is extremely sensitive(kinda ticklish) you can run your tongue along the lips..lightly not like a slobbing dog.
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hmh ya i also just well have never kissed any one.
i hear some stuff like dont back out of it dont kiss then move away ir any thing u have to like well i dont know once ur there just lay it on untill its time to stop.
lol i dont know what im saying i need a good website to show me any one have one?? if so PM me the link plz -
Wow, you're illiterate!
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You will catch on. Start off with open mouthed kisses, no tongue. The worst thing in the world is when a guy just goes right to sticking his tongue down your throat. Lick her lips gently and slowly. Suck on her bottom lip, maybe even give it a little nibble. Caress her tongue with yours in a seductive way. But dont forget you've got two hands, so use them. Stroke her hair, play with her earlobes,etc. Its much more mental than anything-perception is reality- so try to relax. The most important advice I could give you is to listen and respond to her body. You'll know just how she wants to be kissed.
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when you french kiss do you open your mouth alot or a little..not like a sloppy kiss but just normal with some tounge
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Hmm, well the first time I made out, which was with my gf (that i had at the time) was a french kiss. In reality the only kiss i had ever done before was when i kissed my mom goodbye when i was in my first elementary grades(yea i know bad place to put that). Well anyways it started open-mouthed but somehow i led it to french and well she said it was great, and even to this day (we're still friends) and i asked her a few days ago and she still says i was the best she had or something like that. Anyways i would say that if you really care about this girl you would just go with it when the moments right.
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Oh yea dont forget its not just ur mouth its (like memyselfandI said) you also have your hands, which make a big thing in how she'll feel. Make her feel special, like shes the only oneyou care for, i did the hair thing then carressed her face to sort of gently position it to a good pose and then slid down to thighs to a hug kind of thing. I dont know how it all came to me though, must be those movies ;-\
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My advice, don't worry about it. To most girls, its not a big deal. Start off small, work your way up. You'll kinda figure out what to do by natural instinct. If it helps, watch Cruel Intentions for the tutorial by SMG (sarah michlle). If it doesn't help, i still advise it sorry, gettin lil carried away but yea, don't worry about it, she's not gonna dump you cause the first time you two make out its a major slobber fest, then again, if she bites off your tongue, i would take it as a heads up to run lol.
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Ah man dont sweat it at all. i remember when i was in ur position, i was worried as shit. But ya know what u catch on so fast, and the most important thing is to not have a plan. just go with it n see what she wants to do n everything will go smoothly....so relax buddy u got nothin to worry about
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YH dont worry, just go with it, the first time i did it i was with somone a load more experienced so she did most of it, then maybe do it with somone hu hasnt done it much, then do it with anyone. (P.S. dont use them lik i just made it sound like) and keep ure lips closed at first, then open, but no tongue then just lightly touch her tongue with yours then if she replies go for it! Also lightly kiss the neck, that drives my g/f wild!
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its true, don't worry about it, just start with normal kissing, move to open mouth w/ no toungue, and then use toungue. just do it wen you feel most comfortable, cuz wen you are most comfortable, she will be most likely comfortable with it as well! and hey yah, hands are good 2, use them wisely LOL
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In reply to: Poster: AverageJoeSubject: Re: kissing/making out Wow, you're illiterate! I'm sorry, but that is one of the funniest things I've read all month.
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just shake your head like you are lizard and she will come running!
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well... if you want to make out the first thing you really need is a gf. U can do it on the first date if you are good enough. the first time i made out was when i was 14, i made out wif my gf during the whole movie, thats 1 hr and 45 mins. Bring her to a sweat place... i brought her to a movie because she just wanted to watch sth. the key is to go slowly. dont slam yur mouth into hers. sitting down or standing up wont matter. bring her to some where quiet, look at her in the eyes, put yur arms around her waist, move closer and give her a smooth kiss on the lips. and if she doesnt push u away or look likes she doesnt want it. kiss her again but longer each time. and then u can bring yur arms around her neck. and get her mouth open just a little bit and put yur tongue in and start french kissing her. I hope that helped. What really judges if you are a good kisser or not depends on the other person. Ask what she/he likes and do as she/he says and you'll both enjoy it a lot. lol.