How do you know if you're good in bed? I dont want to ask my partner..... i'm scared I'm not good.
How do you know?
.... I just ask .... but it's an interesting subject.
Me, personally i wouldn't ask because if i'm with someone sexually and i wasn't doing something right or a particular way they liked it i really hope he would say something.And that to me is a matter of personal opinon, you might be awesome to one and not so great to the other. So like i said i would waste time thinking about that, if you guys are having sex you should not even have a problem asking and he shouldn't have a problem tell. To me it's very important to verbally open sexually with the person i'm involved with.
~*~Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder~*~
yep, the only way you'll know is if you ask. not specifically "am i good in bed?", more along the line of "what do you like? do you like this? that? what other thing do you want me to do?"it can be hard/embarrasing to be so open, but the best sex i've ever had was when we talked about it.